broken54 Posted March 1, 2004 Posted March 1, 2004 Post: 30 | Quote: My ex and I dated for 7 months. We met at work and still work together. She also experiences depression. She dumped me for an ex who repeatedly cheated on her. She constantly spoke of how she could not believe how stupid she was to have gone out with him in the past. They dated for three years. He is a creep and has nothing going for him in his life. I on the other hand have a very successful career and treated her extremely well. She spoke to a friend of mine about marrying me and said that "I was the best thing to ever happen to her." One day she told me that she loved me and the next ends the relationship and says she doesn't love me. She recently heard of me going on a date with someone else and interrogated my friend about it. What does this mean? She ended it. I constantly get weird looks from her at work and cannot figure out what she wants from me. Does she somewhat want me back or is she just confused? I care for her deeply and want the best for her. The guy she is dating is no good for her and from word of mouth I heard he is still seeing his ex. I don't know what I should do. I wish she would see it for herself but it still hurts me to see her screw up her life by being with him. Any advice?
overseas2004 Posted March 1, 2004 Posted March 1, 2004 There are women who date men who are no good for them and reject those that are good for them. Sadly to say I am one of them. I am trying to change this now. But I would pick people who were projects and try to work on them. You can't change what she has done. And if I were you .... I would be pretty glad that she did you a favor and left. I know it hurts. I am going through a break up right now. Same kind of thing. I am successful and smart and was trying to help him. He had problems. He ended up leaving me. And going back to his stupid loser friends and smoking pot. Go figure? Anyway try to ignore her. Maybe you even get a little satisfaction out of that. hehe Good luck
Author broken54 Posted March 2, 2004 Author Posted March 2, 2004 Thanks for replying. I know I am probably better off. Today I walked past her at work and as she was approaching she looked nervous and kind of out of place. I said hello and she looked me in the eye for the first time. She looked like she was scared of me. I wonder if she is starting to realise that she screwed up. I don't know. Her birthday is coming up and I was thinking of emailing her and wishing her a happy birthday. Should I?
overseas2004 Posted March 3, 2004 Posted March 3, 2004 I really don't think you should do that. I know you might do it anyway but she does not deserve it. She dumped you for a loser after 7 months of dating and you were kind to her. I don't know what the wierd or frightened looks are about but if she realizes her mistake she will come back. The overwhelming feelings one has always push themselves to the forefront. If she loves you she will come back. But do you really want a depressed loser who will go running after idiots? Of course this is reason talking. And you may not be rationale now but you will be in a few weeks of being seperated. Try to ignore her... remember I told you that. And dont play into her wierd looks game. Just ignore her.
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