TurboGirl Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 (edited) Wow, you have not thought this through. YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED! Your 23 year old chickadee has nothing to lose. You have everything & more to lose, at 37. Your wife, kids, respect at your job, possibly your job, not to mention, chickadee could claim sexual harassment! Just FYI, never play with someone who has nothing to lose when YOU have everything to lose! What is to stop chickadee from calling wifey? Chickadee has nothing to lose! oh, and probably all her little friends at work know too, water cooler office gossip. How charming, great for the career. Be smart, end it now... however you can...claim guilt, sorrow, remose, etc., tell chickadee You and wife are going for counseling, because you want to say married for your kids, make something up, just get out now. You will save yourself a lot of heartache. Edited October 12, 2010 by TurboGirl
AshleyMadison Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 We love your story, but the risk is too great. Your LS friends are right. Take this need for excitement to a place that is manageable. Of course we recommend finding a more discreet place to play like AshleyMadison.com. No need to be so risky.
2sure Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Based on the amount of risk taking and on your level of security ...you either have already been caught and dont know it or will be caught on Wednesday.
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 We love your story, but the risk is too great. Your LS friends are right. Take this need for excitement to a place that is manageable. Of course we recommend finding a more discreet place to play like AshleyMadison.com. No need to be so risky. This gets the award for the most post-specific spam.
OWoman Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Kresniko, you're not comfortable with where this is heading. That alone is reason to get out. If your heart was really in it, you wouldn't be posting here that you are "slightly worried" - you'd be out there shagging away in the marital bed while your BW fumbled for her keys on the doorstep. If your sex life is ho-hum, address that - there are several threads on that theme on the Marriage and Life Partnerships board. You're taking cough medicine to treat a fractured leg. You might get a buzz, but it's not going to fix your leg (or your marital intimacy) and the side effects could prove toxic. Good luck.
TinaniT Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 Back off. You can't change what you did; so there is a risk of your wife finding out. No changing that. I would be as kind as possible in ending it, without sacrifice being clear that it is all over no matter what. I'm not going to demonize the girl. She is 23, not at the height of maturity. Especially if she has no kids yet, she is probably of an immature thought processes and compass for herself... I am still learning myself and I have several years on her. If she comes from an unhealthy home environment, it explains so much more and means she is even more immature. Good luck.
nsearch4u Posted November 30, 2010 Posted November 30, 2010 the energy, thought, and effort you've already spent, if applied to your marriage would probably have already surpassed anything you could imagine from this girl.......
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