gl_kin Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 She is the most beautiful girl I ever met and such a lovely girl. She is 30, young lady but very mature. I was not treating her right and I was cheating with some girls behind her back . She found out at the 4th months we were together. She broke off with me after that. Since then, I have been missing her and I realized how foolish I have been and I flew to tell her that I am sorry and I dont want to loose her. She lives in different city. But other girl that I have been playing with emailed her and telling her everything I did with other girls. This is totally out of my prediction. She was so broken after hearing the other girls telling her the details . I know I have to grow up and I made mistakes. But I do care abt her and I care about her a lot. She sent met an email this morning saying : "my last request to you do not ever come near me again. I do not want to have any thing to do with you ever again. Please respect my request. Dont text me, dont email me, dont call me, dont send me anything from facebook. My biggest mistake is to know you" i replied her I am very sorry and wished her all the best.. she replied me " "The more you say the more i feel disgusted" Does she really mean it? She sounds like she hates me now which is totally not her nature. Does it mean.. it cant be fixed? Female opinion?
Capthxc Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 You were only together for 4 months and you cheated on her. Just leave her alone and move on. I dont really blame her for being upset. You need to cut off contact with her and work on your own issues before you try and work on a relationship again.
Weekender Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Yes, she hates you. You hurt and humiliated her. I don't see ANY chance to fix this. The best thing you can do for her now is to respect her wishes and leave her alone.
Author gl_kin Posted October 12, 2010 Author Posted October 12, 2010 I really regret it and I told her so. I know the trust is broken , I really feel bad. Especially the fact she is such a great girl. The most beautiful girl I ever met, and also good characters. I knew I was lost. I wish I could turn back the time.
Don Ho Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 I really regret it and I told her so. I know the trust is broken , I really feel bad. Especially the fact she is such a great girl. The most beautiful girl I ever met, and also good characters. I knew I was lost. I wish I could turn back the time. If you thought she was that beautiful, good and wonderful you wouldn't have cheated. Oh. I forgot. You're a douche bag. Respect her wishes!! Leave her alone before she files a restraining order or calls the Police on your dumb a$$. Hope you learned your lesson.
Author gl_kin Posted October 15, 2010 Author Posted October 15, 2010 I know what i did was intolerable, very stupid and was very wrong . I was being an ass but I really regret what I did . I hope I could make up for all the wrong things I have done and make her happy. Cant i be forgiven? I just texted her tonight telling her that I am missing her. She didn't reply me. But I really miss her and have been thinking of her a lot. I know she hates me but I really really miss her and I have not felt that with other girls for a long time. I feel like banging my head to the wall for all the stupid things I have done. And for not being able to realized how lucky I was that I had her. I know it is too late and to much water under the bridge. But I really want to make it right this time. I dont want to loose her forever. I know it sounds very irritating but is there any of you who ever had chance to make it right 2nd time ?
xinchao123 Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 you should go NC right away first you hurt her BAD second she needs time third you are not regretting enough aww man you ruined the love of your life .
WTRanger Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 Her restraining order will keep you away. If you care(d) about her at all, you'll respect her wish and leave her alone.
kaycstamper Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 Take her at her word, she means what she says. What you did is not acceptable and she does not want someone of your character.
GorillaTheater Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 I just texted her tonight telling her that I am missing her. Stop this sh*t. Respect her wishes. The only chance you have is to give her time to reconsider, and it's a slim as hell chance at that. She asked you to leave her alone, period. Do it. And for christsakes try to learn something from this.
Don Ho Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 I know what i did was intolerable, very stupid and was very wrong . I was being an ass but I really regret what I did . I hope I could make up for all the wrong things I have done and make her happy. Cant i be forgiven? I just texted her tonight telling her that I am missing her. She didn't reply me. But I really miss her and have been thinking of her a lot. I know she hates me but I really really miss her and I have not felt that with other girls for a long time. I feel like banging my head to the wall for all the stupid things I have done. And for not being able to realized how lucky I was that I had her. I know it is too late and to much water under the bridge. But I really want to make it right this time. I dont want to loose her forever. I know it sounds very irritating but is there any of you who ever had chance to make it right 2nd time ? Bro, you notice was you just stated was all about YOU!?!? No, you are not going to be able to make up for the wrongs you have done to her nor make it right. If YOU really care about her, you will leave her alone. You have caused enough hurt in her life. Learn you lesson from this Bro, remember it and don't repeat it in your next relationship. That's the only way you're going to make "it right". Maybe in a year if you bump into her you will then be able to say "I'm sorry I hurt you and I was an ass". I got a chance to do that with an Ex that I burned but it was about ten years later when I ran into her.
EricaH329 Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 Bro, you notice was you just stated was all about YOU!?!? No, you are not going to be able to make up for the wrongs you have done to her nor make it right. If YOU really care about her, you will leave her alone. You have caused enough hurt in her life. Learn you lesson from this Bro, remember it and don't repeat it in your next relationship. That's the only way you're going to make "it right". Maybe in a year if you bump into her you will then be able to say "I'm sorry I hurt you and I was an ass". I got a chance to do that with an Ex that I burned but it was about ten years later when I ran into her. +50 billion! I was thinking the same exact thing! Every post the OP made, had the word 'I' in it in every sentence. OP-- I suggest you stop thinking about yourself so much (which is what got you into this mess to begin with) and start thinking about other people. She doesn't want anything to do with you. Respect that. Learn from this experience and hopefully you won't end up back in this same situation again. Good luck to you.
dingdong Posted October 17, 2010 Posted October 17, 2010 yea dude, leave this girl alone. What you've done is really heinous, you have no respect for her at all.
Author gl_kin Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 thanks for all replies. I know i have to pay the price for what I had done one way or the other. I just wrote an email to her few hours ago to tell her how sorry I am and I accept the fact I should let her go because of my mistakes. I am so sorry guys, I wrote that email was not to irritate her but simply I wanted to express my guilt and to let her know how much I regret what I had done and wish her good bye. It has been haunting me and I miss her like crazy. I wished her all the best and she totally deserves a great guy. She replied me just now. " I had forgiven you but please leave me alone, i want to think about my future. " partially i am glad she did reply but sad too, I know have to let her go.
strangeways Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 You sent that email for your benefit not hers. LEAVE HER ALONE.
Don Ho Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 Yep. That email was all about YOU, not about her. It was really about trying to make you feel better, not her. I'm glad you got the response you did from her. I bet her next move is to file a Restraining Order against you because you don't seem to get it. Leave her alone. She can't make it anymore clear that she wants NOTHING to do with you!
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