classof2014 Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Ive noticed that if you type in "gender superiority" on google the majority of the posts are either saying that neither gender is superior (which is what I believe), but many of them say that females are superior and it even seems like lots of men believe women are better. I know America (compared to the rest of the world) basically hates men and humiliates them but I thought people were smart enough to separate media and courtroom biased with the real world. Do you or most people you know truly believe one gender is better than the other?
brainygirl Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 I bet you are from the middle east or asia, tell me I'm wrong.
Jane Doe Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 I think we're all created equal. It's how you live your life, what you do for others, the choices you make, how you contribute to society, and how you treat yourself and others that make you "better." As for someone automatically being superior based on their sex, race, religion, etc..........well, that's just crap. Just because the media may suggest something doesn't mean it's accurate or right.
welikeincrowds Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 I think whatever gender you belong to is the worst gender
florence of suburbia Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Well, for most of history men were considered superior based on the great chain of being, which was a universal way of thinking for a long time. There are probably religious people who still think this way, in fact my husband might. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_chain_of_being God Angels Demons Man Woman Animals Plants Minerals
Author classof2014 Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 Im from southern california
brainygirl Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Im from southern california where are your parents from and where you born in CA or somewhere else?
lso802 Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Depends on the person IMO. Not that men are better, but men definitely have advantages over women, e.g. income disparity b/wn male dominated fields vs. female dominated fields.
Author classof2014 Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 My parents are both from Southern California. Both are liberal and I basically don't agree with anything they say regarding politics. Most of my female friends are asian because (no offense and maybe this explains my posts) the white girls (not that many other races in my area) are basically ditzy blondes that go shopping, tanning, and have eating disorders. Ive met a few exceptions but they are so few that all of the exceptions constantly have to deal with their ditzy friends and it can get tiring. Im a very intellectual person and Im currently in an honors program at a top Univ I hope to attend yale law school after.
xpaperxcutx Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Does advantages equate to superiority? I believe neither is superior but society dictate men dominate ( given the social history of the human race).
lso802 Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 No. All I said was men have advantages in our society.
theBrokenMuse Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 I also don't believe a spouse can be raped. You married that person. You should be required to have sex with them. Any questions? Plenty for a rape apologist such as yourself but none that the mods would ever leave up in a million years.
brainygirl Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 My parents are both from Southern California. Both are liberal and I basically don't agree with anything they say regarding politics. Most of my female friends are asian because (no offense and maybe this explains my posts) the white girls (not that many other races in my area) are basically ditzy blondes that go shopping, tanning, and have eating disorders. Ive met a few exceptions but they are so few that all of the exceptions constantly have to deal with their ditzy friends and it can get tiring. Im a very intellectual person and Im currently in an honors program at a top Univ I hope to attend yale law school after. Well, intellectual or no, your patterns of thought towards "most american" women are reminiscent of ultra religious conservatives' propaganda or someone who's social skills are those of a higher functioning ASD sufferer. Frankly, I'm not impressed with these little "what do you thinks" you've been putting together.
Author classof2014 Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 (edited) @TheBrokenMuse: I deleted that because of the exact reason you stated. No need to contact the mods. I just believe that in a marriage each partner needs to understand that one part of marital love is the desire to share each others bodies unconditionally. But lets not get off topic. @Brainygirl: If you lived in SoCal, (especially upper class areas) you would understand my reasoning. What region do you live in? I know this because I visit Washington, Oregon, and NY quite a bit and all of these places have better quality women IMO EDIT: I see you live in Kansas. Its completely different there. SoCal is known as the materialistic center of the US and middle America is known as basically the polar opposite. Edited October 11, 2010 by classof2014
porter218 Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 My parents are both from Southern California. Both are liberal and I basically don't agree with anything they say regarding politics. Most of my female friends are asian because (no offense and maybe this explains my posts) the white girls (not that many other races in my area) are basically ditzy blondes that go shopping, tanning, and have eating disorders. Ive met a few exceptions but they are so few that all of the exceptions constantly have to deal with their ditzy friends and it can get tiring. Im a very intellectual person and Im currently in an honors program at a top Univ I hope to attend yale law school after. haha!! my sister happens to be one of those ditzy blondes....however she is also an intellectual(the ditzy thing is just fun for her) about to accept a scholarship to Yale pre-med and definitely thinks women are superior. Maybe it is an American thing...We do come from a matriarchal family that is highly educated, and that(I'm sure) contributes to her point of view.
Author classof2014 Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 I don't mind if a girl likes to have fun/acts ditzy. I mind it when thats all she likes to do and doesn't have any goals or wants to do anything with her life and even worse, thinks she's entitled to thinks because she's "hot." I actually know someone just like your sister. She was quite nice and I was good friends with her. However, I could tell that she had a somewhat limited choice of interests with her friends as most girls were too busy worrying about the next party to care about the microbiology tests Also, does your sister really think women are biologically superior or does she just say that because of your family background and her Yale attendance? Its difficult for me to believe that a medical student would think one gender was inherently better.
porter218 Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 @TheBrokenMuse: I deleted that because of the exact reason you stated. No need to contact the mods. I just believe that in a marriage each partner needs to understand that one part of marital love is the desire to share each others bodies unconditionally. But lets not get off topic. @Brainygirl: If you lived in SoCal, (especially upper class areas) you would understand my reasoning. What region do you live in? I know this because I visit Washington, Oregon, and NY quite a bit and all of these places have better quality women IMO EDIT: I see you live in Kansas. Its completely different there. SoCal is known as the materialistic center of the US and middle America is known as basically the polar opposite. OK..I just can't take any more of this post. >:sick:< I would have played nice ...but then TheBrokenMuse chimed in with ...well...just :sick: Yes, it is an American thing. Don't date any of us...please.
brainygirl Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 @TheBrokenMuse: I deleted that because of the exact reason you stated. No need to contact the mods. I just believe that in a marriage each partner needs to understand that one part of marital love is the desire to share each others bodies unconditionally. But lets not get off topic. @Brainygirl: If you lived in SoCal, (especially upper class areas) you would understand my reasoning. What region do you live in? I know this because I visit Washington, Oregon, and NY quite a bit and all of these places have better quality women IMO EDIT: I see you live in Kansas. Its completely different there. SoCal is known as the materialistic center of the US and middle America is known as basically the polar opposite. But it isn't off topic, its all about the utter contempt you have for "American women". If anyone were saying these things about black women or asian women, it would be a case for the mods, but because you spread your hatred over the largest demographic in the country, its somehow ok, tasteless, but not intolerable. I think what ever your issues are, they are in your own head. I worry about you, the women you will date and I hope they don't let you into med school or law school until you've been re educated. The promise to love honor and cherish does not include to submit to sex when ever and where ever. Women have a right to enjoy what they enjoy and they have a right to see through your crap and reject you, I sure would. I can only hope the "asian girls" you chase see through it too.
Author classof2014 Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 Ok, Ill humor you. I agree no one should be forced to have sex, but why would you marry someone if you don't love them enough to have sex with them whenever they want? I mean unless there is a physical reason (i.e. pregancy) it seems odd that a couple would get married and then not want to have sex. In fact, marriages can be annulled if one party refuses to have sex.
brainygirl Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Ok, Ill humor you. I agree no one should be forced to have sex, but why would you marry someone if you don't love them enough to have sex with them whenever they want? I mean unless there is a physical reason (i.e. pregancy) it seems odd that a couple would get married and then not want to have sex. In fact, marriages can be annulled if one party refuses to have sex. Seriously should have paid more attention in health class kiddo, pregnancy is no reason not to have sex, sex even helps the process. How about fatigue, fighting, illness, mood or lack thereof. No one owns anyone's body. Period.
porter218 Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 I don't mind if a girl likes to have fun/acts ditzy. I mind it when thats all she likes to do and doesn't have any goals or wants to do anything with her life and even worse, thinks she's entitled to thinks because she's "hot." I actually know someone just like your sister. She was quite nice and I was good friends with her. However, I could tell that she had a somewhat limited choice of interests with her friends as most girls were too busy worrying about the next party to care about the microbiology tests Also, does your sister really think women are biologically superior or does she just say that because of your family background and her Yale attendance? Its difficult for me to believe that a medical student would think one gender was inherently better. Maybe.. I'll ask her in a few days when I see her. She does make fun of the girls you are talking about and can't relate to them. It is honestly very hard to say what her view would be if she were from another family because we can't/wouldn't change that. Ipersonally think I am superior...not because of my gender but because I happen to be superior:laugh:. Again, that my be my upbringing talking. If SoCal is where you are making your judgements of American women, well please get a bigger picture of this country. I spend every spring in SoCal and it is fun but it is a world of it's own.
Author classof2014 Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 pregnancy can cause lots of those symptoms. thats what I was referring to and yes I agree, if someone is sick, they should not have sex. However, what I am referring to is when one party decides to not have sex as a way of pushing the other partner (usually the guy) to give in to the girls demands because the guy knows if he gets a divorce (annullment is only good for short marriages) the guy will most likely lose everything and even maybe end of in jail, depending on how liberal the state is.
Author classof2014 Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 yeah I know SoCal isn't really great in terms of dating life, but unfortunately Im stuck here for quite a while (at least until grad school), so Im gonna have to make the best of it. Im hoping to move somewhere less superficial.
xpaperxcutx Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Ok, Ill humor you. I agree no one should be forced to have sex, but why would you marry someone if you don't love them enough to have sex with them whenever they want? I mean unless there is a physical reason (i.e. pregancy) it seems odd that a couple would get married and then not want to have sex. In fact, marriages can be annulled if one party refuses to have sex. Actually I think " lack of sex" is the reason you're spouting all these remarks.
Knittress Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Ok, Ill humor you. I agree no one should be forced to have sex, but why would you marry someone if you don't love them enough to have sex with them whenever they want? I mean unless there is a physical reason (i.e. pregancy) it seems odd that a couple would get married and then not want to have sex. In fact, marriages can be annulled if one party refuses to have sex. Thanks for humoring her. The rest of us can now relax and pat you on the back, now that you have made it clear that you're not pro-rape, only that you believe marriage vows dispel all sense of caring, respect and consensuality in a relationship. Have you ever even BEEN in a relationship? 'Cause you sound like the most clueless mo-fo on EARTH.
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