mgerdie Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 So, it looks like divorce is in the future for myself and my husband. We have been married for 3 years together for 5. Emotionally he is unavailable. Its been over 6 months since we have had sex which a lot of the problems stem from that. The lack of emotional invovlement makes me feel very alone. We went to counseling last year for about 8 months but ntohing has changed. that's just the tip of the issues we have faced. I know deep down that I no longer feel the same about him and that divorce could be a good thing. But I am constantly going back and forth. Is that normal? I am having a wide range of emotions. Its suppose to be hard right? I feel like I have failed and that I will never find anyone again. Are all these feelings that I am having normal? Any advice is welcome. I just need to talk with people who have been through a divorce.
You Go Girl Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 So, it looks like divorce is in the future for myself and my husband. We have been married for 3 years together for 5. Emotionally he is unavailable. Its been over 6 months since we have had sex which a lot of the problems stem from that. The lack of emotional invovlement makes me feel very alone. We went to counseling last year for about 8 months but ntohing has changed. that's just the tip of the issues we have faced. I know deep down that I no longer feel the same about him and that divorce could be a good thing. But I am constantly going back and forth. Is that normal? I am having a wide range of emotions. Its suppose to be hard right? I feel like I have failed and that I will never find anyone again. Are all these feelings that I am having normal? Any advice is welcome. I just need to talk with people who have been through a divorce. It's called welcome to the rollercoaster. Yes, it is hard, difficult. Otherwise would be denial. Have you tried everything? Only you know. It is very normal to feel like you will never find anyone again. It is an illogical fear, but a very common one. Can you handle never finding him again, that's the question. Did he cause the lack of physical intimacy as well as the lack of emotional intimacy?
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