dollyme Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Ok, i recently met a guy who lives on my street. We have talked on the phone once and have talked face to face half way between our houses a couple of times. I'm not really looking for a relationship but if something happens then it happens and I have told him that. So he knows what I want. Since I havn't hung out with anyone that lived that close to me, my question is: should i go over to his house just to hang out and leave if I feel uncomfortable?
ComeUndone Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 this sucks balls Patience not your strong suit?
sugarmomma Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Its clear that you just want to get laid. Go get it at his house, not yours.
Sabali Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 How about feeling comfortable around him before you go over so you won't have much of an excuse to leave once you are over there? If you are having questions like this right now, you probably won't be much fun over there at the moment and appear all up type around him. You two leave in the same area. Why not just go on a walk with him first?
brainygirl Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 have you READ the thread on daterape? That is all.
welikeincrowds Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 How close he coincidentally happens to live to you shouldn't be a factor. In fact, don't let it be a factor. Treat him like you would anyone you're interested in, and take it at the same pace. Go to his place when it feels right to go to his place.
Sabali Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 How about feeling comfortable around him before you go over so you won't have much of an excuse to leave once you are over there? If you are having questions like this right now, you probably won't be much fun over there at the moment and appear all up type around him. You two leave in the same area. Why not just go on a walk with him first? Meant to say "uptight."
Author dollyme Posted October 10, 2010 Author Posted October 10, 2010 thank you sabali for actually answering my question. and i dont want to get laid with b/c i already have a friends with benefits going on while im single. lastly the "this sucks balls" refers to how long it took somebody to post/answer my question
Cracker Jack Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 I agree with Sabali. I don't think you need to go to his house right now. Hanging out in public places would likely be better at this point, so I think you should do that.
Str8noChaser Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Ok, i recently met a guy who lives on my street. We have talked on the phone once and have talked face to face half way between our houses a couple of times. I'm not really looking for a relationship but if something happens then it happens and I have told him that. Couple of things. You two haven't been on a date and doesn't sound like he asked you out on a date either. If you start at his house, you can't wonder in a few months why he is not trying to date you. So he knows what I want. Not really. He knows that you are open to a relationship but are okay with hanging out outside of one. Not that you are SOLELY looking for a relationship, big difference. i dont want to get laid with b/c i already have a friends with benefits going on while im single. So why are you going to hang out at his house if you aren't looking for a relationship and already have someone on the side for sex? What exactly do you want from your guy down the street?
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