LoveLace Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Spent most of this weekend with the newest fellow And my doubts about our compatibility have subsided for the most part. We both had some drinks last night but he was very cool and collected, and we enjoyed one heck of an awesome music show. Earlier in the day we went shopping and he bought me things...he was just dying to spend money on me. I picked out a $20 shirt and he said "is that all?" We also had dinner on a nice patio at a nearby pub. My friends had to cancel for meeting us that day so we ended doing a lot more talking and getting to know each other. At the music event a photographer took our picture and later came back with a 5 x 7 print for us to have and we both really liked our picture together. He owns his own plane (6 seater) and he wants to take me up for a spin around the city next week...he flies further distances but he wants me to get used to the plane so that he can take me to cool places that are 3-4 hours from here. I might be falling for this guy. We talked about his vodka thing again and he said that he was just trying way too hard to impress me, relax himself, etc. This weekend he didn't get on my nerves at all and I was even slightly sad when he had to go home. Now I'm back on a high I was on when I first met him. But like him more this time. It even makes me a little nervous because it has potential to really be the real thing. Is this natural? Maybe I'm nervous because I'm worried that he will get on my nerves again? Or nervous because I found something with real potential and I might really be heading out the door of the single life?
Star Gazer Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Good to see he's able to handle his alcohol. I think you might be nervous because it feels too good to be true. You're excited because he's like a fairytale: telling you everything you've ever wanted to hear, spoiling you, buying you things, doing romantic things like plane rides. Enjoy it for now, LL... but be careful. It's only been, what, 4 dates now? That which takes off like a rocket is bound to come crashing down like one. Make sure takeoff on your relationship journey is slow and steady.
xpaperxcutx Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Don't scrutinize and overthink something that isn't there. I think you're doing good LL, just go at a comfortable pace as opposed to letting emotion drive to question his motives, his actions, etc. Based on past board members post, I'lm sure you know what I'm talking about. Have fun.
Author LoveLace Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 Good to see he's able to handle his alcohol. I think you might be nervous because it feels too good to be true. You're excited because he's like a fairytale: telling you everything you've ever wanted to hear, spoiling you, buying you things, doing romantic things like plane rides. Enjoy it for now, LL... but be careful. It's only been, what, 4 dates now? That which takes off like a rocket is bound to come crashing down like one. Make sure takeoff on your relationship journey is slow and steady. YEP too good to be true that's about what I'm feeling at this point...but I guess my feet are on the ground because I don't desire to see him more than once or twice a week knowing I go crazy without my alone time. So I guess as long as I stay aware of my needs that way it shouldn't crash and burn. Before I knew I really liked him this much, I'd made a date with someone for this week...now I'm less interested in pursuing that date. Yet it seems to soon to close the door on the option as well. But it scares me to think of putting myself in the situation of choosing between 2 people..the other part of me wants to see if a date would somehow confirm how much I really like this guy or what. I don't know what I'll do about that yet...
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