guinnessdraft Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Is it bad to have sex with a stripper when you're married? Does it count as cheating? It feels more like watching porn and masturbating.
Jane Doe Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Yes it's bad and yes it's cheating. If it feels the same as porn and masturbation, why not just watch porn and masturbate? You might save yourself some diseases.
Feelin Frisky Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 If a stripper has sex with you she's not acting as a stripper. She's either acting as a woman or a prostitute. This should make answering your question easier.
xpaperxcutx Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Are you a troll? " cheating" is cheating whether a stripper, prostitute or your next door neighbor.
johan Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Oh, no. You should do it for sure. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Citizen Erased Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 It's only cheating if you catch something. Then it's real.
Feelin Frisky Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Couch it this way: she had sex with me but her "day job" is stripping. Does her "day job" make her a non-woman-I'm-having-sex-with-that's-not-my-wife ?
tinktronik Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Oh, no. You should do it for sure. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. (: Best answer. 10+ Ridiculous question.
JamesM Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Ask your wife... see what she thinks. THIS is the correct answer to this question. Assuming you are a guy and are married, then your wife may or may not like the idea of you having sex with someone else. It is possible that she doesn't even mind if you go to a strip club. But her response to this question is all that matters. If she says that it is okay with her, then feel free to have sex with strippers. If she does not, then even if all of us responded like Johan did...it doesn't matter. Ask your wife.
Feelin Frisky Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 THIS is the correct answer to this question. Assuming you are a guy and are married, then your wife may or may not like the idea of you having sex with someone else. It is possible that she doesn't even mind if you go to a strip club. But her response to this question is all that matters. If she says that it is okay with her, then feel free to have sex with strippers. If she does not, then even if all of us responded like Johan did...it doesn't matter. Ask your wife. Hah. Yeah. See if the wife thinks being "strippers" doesn't make the other women "women". Maybe she buys that too. Ya never know.
PegNosePete Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Nobody said this stripper was a woman did they???
Author guinnessdraft Posted October 12, 2010 Author Posted October 12, 2010 Are you a troll? " cheating" is cheating whether a stripper, prostitute or your next door neighbor. I think sex is different for men and women. Women get emotional before they can have sex. Men have sex then potentially get emotional. They could have sex for the physical pleasure of sex. Even with my wife, sometimes it's just sex. It's just lately she's been very busy and I'm very tempted to get some elsewhere and it's seem like there's less of a potential to get emotional when it's with a stripper. There's the disease factor but that applies to everyone these days.
porter218 Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 I think sex is different for men and women. Women get emotional before they can have sex. Men have sex then potentially get emotional. They could have sex for the physical pleasure of sex. Even with my wife, sometimes it's just sex. It's just lately she's been very busy and I'm very tempted to get some elsewhere and it's seem like there's less of a potential to get emotional when it's with a stripper. There's the disease factor but that applies to everyone these days. Well...my H had sex with a stripper. I think he was thinking the way you are right here. "It's not as bad as an affair". Either way...he is now my xH. I admit it hurt less then an A but it still hurt enough for me to leave. Never in a million years would I go back, ever. Just thought you may like a glimpse into your future...
reservoirdog1 Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 I think sex is different for men and women. Women get emotional before they can have sex. Men have sex then potentially get emotional. They could have sex for the physical pleasure of sex. Even with my wife, sometimes it's just sex. It's just lately she's been very busy and I'm very tempted to get some elsewhere and it's seem like there's less of a potential to get emotional when it's with a stripper. There's the disease factor but that applies to everyone these days. Tell you what... ask your wife what she thinks. If she thinks it's not cheating, then rock on with the stripper. If she thinks it is cheating, then you can decide if you want to cheat on her. If, in your view, banging a stripper is not cheating but simply equivalent to watching porn and jerking off, then why are you hesitant to simply ask your wife if she's cool with it?
witabix Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Oh, no. You should do it for sure. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. I think you can get it on prescription these days, just go see your doc. Sex with a stripper is obviously not cheating, nor is sex with a prostitute. Sex with a camel is cool too. Sex with an intern puts you in the clear as well. Mr Clinton has proved that, didn't he? What kind of muppet asks a question like this?
johan Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 What kind of muppet asks a question like this? This kind (watch to the end):
Mimolicious Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 Is it bad to have sex with a stripper when you're married? Does it count as cheating? It feels more like watching porn and masturbating. Yes it is cheating. If you are having sex with stripperS, then you may want to seek help. Hope that you are using protection, this is a health risk to your wife. Tell her! So she can get checked.
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