lofi_tokyo Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Here's my thread from before this one: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3010627#post3010627 You know what, guys? We fixed things for about a week or so. I found out something really huge about myself: I'm so scared of getting hurt that I keep him away. But you know what I really truly believe? I believe that if him and I were a good couple for one another, I wouldn't be having these doubts. He's a wonderful guy - and he's shown me what a good relationship should look like. Part of me wants so badly to believe that we'll get back together eventually - that after a couple weeks or whatever he'll realize what he's letting go. I'd say I'm optimistic about that happening. Another part of me knows though that we're broken up. It's over. You know what though? I'll miss him so much, but right now we're not working. We probably never will. And finally having an answer as to where our relationship is going (nowhere) feels SO good. The uncertainty for the last couple months was killing me. I guess I'll be posting a lot of posts where I'm hurting here in the next couple weeks/months. For now though, I'm feelin' fine.
pandagirl Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Aw, sorry to hear this! I know you had been thinking about it for a bit. Sometimes a relationship doesn't work out, not because the two people don't care about each other or like each other, but because of circumstances or stages of life or individual issues. Give yourself time to heal and be sad. I found the best way to approach a break up is to accept what happened, but to also realize there is no way to predict what the future will hold, so it's best just to let go and focus on yourself and your happiness.
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