vivmeeester Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Hello, im new to this community and i just wanted some help and thoughts. I broke NC with him yesterday with a text to him asking for the rest of my clothes back...i dont know why i did it.. i wanted to see if he still cared. i just told him if he could gather up my stuff and just give it to our mutual friend to give back to me..and his reply was "ok" that's it thats all. after 3 weeks of NC he still doesnt want me back.. he said he wanted "time" we've been together for 3 years.. i've seen him around town with another girl. wth..im just so mad. i miss him and want him back. NC was so hard to do but i did it and i guess i approached it the wrong way. im just devastated.
Leandro Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Just go back to NC. You deserve better than that.
Billie The Puppet Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 I wish it were as simple as NC fir a timeframe = ex back However that is just not the case. I'm on week 6 and today giving the holiday (Thanksgiving for Cdns) it's just been a really down day. Really we have to go on as if they will never come back and if they do it's a bonus. Definitely easier said than done as I type this still heartbroken.
Gt.ooh Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 I agree, Holidays which used to be fun and full of laughter no longer have that effect. It's like they know how much we hurt, and don't care because they made the decision so they can live with it.
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