The Bank Teller - just friendly or does she want me?

[Justanotherdude]

Went into a friend's bank to make a payment on his credit card account.

 

Hello, gorgeous teller. (Bank of America, I applaud you here.)

 

She comments on what a great friend I must be, and I immediately start bantering with her. I make a joke about the Halloween decor with a reference to her and she eats it up. She jokes right back with her own version. More flirty banter.

 

She asks if I bank there, and I tell her no as my account was overdrafted several years ago, and I have yet to take care of it so I bank elsewhere.

 

She replies with this almost overdramatic, "Well, we'd just LOVE to have you back here as a customer."

 

I tell her sure thing, and she replies "We REALLY look forward to seeing you soon"

 

I ask her name, introduce myself, and walk out.

 

 

Ladies and Gentlemen of Loveshack, tell me how to handle the bank teller?

[Yvette_Sveden]

I'm also curious to what other members of the forum will tell you. But my opinion is that she was being friendly with you. Being playful with others is certainly fine and it's healthy for the people's attitudes and moods. But overall, she was just being friendly.

 

I want to be proven wrong here because I hope something good can come of this, but I'm telling you what my guts tell me.

 

 

Yvette from Sweden

[Feelin Frisky]

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Ladies and Gentlemen of Loveshack, tell me how to handle the bank teller?

 

Make a deposit in her mouth. But seriously folks, she's probably just enjoying her job. I had a gorgeous teller too a couple of years ago and she would always give me this look when asking me "is there anything else I can do you you today Mr. Frisky?" I always felt like telling her "please don't make me have to say no thank you". But I didn't want to be a predictable doting goober. She was my perfect type.

[redmelon]

part of her job is account sales. I was a teller for many years, and I know that I was grossly misinterpreted on occasion. Only way to tell is to go back and see what happens. I'm just guessing that she may have not been hitting on someone who admitted to owing another bank money for years from an overdraft. that seems like a red flag that you are not responsible with your money, and tellers often care about that sort of thing. But who knows, I could be totally wrong...

[Jane Doe]

I'm just guessing that she may have not been hitting on someone who admitted to owing another bank money for years from an overdraft. that seems like a red flag that you are not responsible with your money, and tellers often care about that sort of thing. But who knows, I could be totally wrong...

 

That would be my thought as well.

[Joe Normal]

She's probably on commission. Still, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Make a move next time, then you will find out if she was just friendly or if it's something more. Or stay quiet like a chump and go to your grave never finding out one way or the other.

[ConstantCraving]

Went into a friend's bank to make a payment on his credit card account.

 

Hello, gorgeous teller. (Bank of America, I applaud you here.)

 

She comments on what a great friend I must be, and I immediately start bantering with her. I make a joke about the Halloween decor with a reference to her and she eats it up. She jokes right back with her own version. More flirty banter.

 

She asks if I bank there, and I tell her no as my account was overdrafted several years ago, and I have yet to take care of it so I bank elsewhere.

 

She replies with this almost overdramatic, "Well, we'd just LOVE to have you back here as a customer."

 

I tell her sure thing, and she replies "We REALLY look forward to seeing you soon"

 

I ask her name, introduce myself, and walk out.

 

Ladies and Gentlemen of Loveshack, tell me how to handle the bank teller?

 

Did she try to sell you any financial services?

 

If "yes", then she has no interest in you as a person.

 

If "no", then pass her your name & phone number on your next visit.

[goingstrong]

Make a deposit in her mouth.

 

Funny..LMAH...then make a withdraw out of her...