elaina Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Hello, I was just wondering, would you prefer to have sex with someone you love, or with someone you don't love? And why please? Thanks.
Star Gazer Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Honestly? Depends on my mood. Sometimes I'm in the mood for this: I would much prefer to have sex with someone I love. Why? It enhances the pleasure of making my partner feel good, and of receiving pleasure from them. I find it much more comfortable being able to lock eyes, caress her face, and cuddle afterward. Sometimes I'm just in the mood to f**k.
Author elaina Posted October 10, 2010 Author Posted October 10, 2010 Honestly? Depends on my mood. Sometimes I'm in the mood for this: Sometimes I'm just in the mood to f**k. Understood
Star Gazer Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Understood And that could be with the same person...if that makes sense.
Citizen Erased Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 In love. I can't keep my hands off someone when I love them. If I don't, I don't have much drive for sex with them.
TaurusTerp Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Sex with someone you love is almost always better. Sex with someone you don't love is always better than no sex at all, though.
tigressA Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Sex with someone you love is almost always better. Sex with someone you don't love is always better than no sex at all, though. This. --------
skydiveaddict Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 IDK, I like to feel an emotional connection with someone before I have sex with her.
tami-chan Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Sex with someone you don't love is always better than no sex at all, though. ...funny~~~ so they are both "better"...
Star Gazer Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 IDK, I like to feel an emotional connection with someone before I have sex with her. Well, of course. But an emotional connection isn't nearly as "deep" as actually loving someone.
tigressA Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 I have yet to have sex with someone I love. I'll let LS know how it feels for me compared to all the other times
Feelin Frisky Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Love. Why? Because intimacy is caring and sharing and I don't see that happening nearly as much or at all with someone you can take or leave. 1.) OK, you go now, yes? versus 2.) I love you so much I want this moment to last forever. Hands down winner: #2.
florence of suburbia Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Amazing sex with someone you love is about the best life has to offer. Time stands still.
Feelin Frisky Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Amazing sex with someone you love is about the best life has to offer. Time stands still. Yer darn tootin, Flo. It's the joint.
Surrealist Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Getting any sex at all would be a major accomplishment in my life lol.
Floridaman Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 (edited) Hello, I was just wondering, would you prefer to have sex with someone you love, or with someone you don't love? And why please? Thanks. Elaina, with someone I love for sure. When I was younger, I may have really liked someone bec. she showed some interest in me. (TBH, I didn't have a lot of sex when in my 20s and younger). Now, there has to be some kind of commitment. ML -- vs. just having sex -- I want to freely be able to tell her how much I love her and thank her for letting me express my love sexually with her:love: and want to hear her say that to me as well... If she won't freely express her loving feelings, and not just bec. she likes the physical activity, it could be a deal-breaker for me. Edited November 13, 2010 by Floridaman
Cee Posted November 13, 2010 Posted November 13, 2010 I haven't been in love for 10 years, so I now have sex with men who I really, really like as a person. And that has worked for me. I've learned to separate love and sex. But respect, decency, good technique, and a healthy dose of humor is still in the equation.
zengirl Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 IMO: Sex with someone you love is just better. I understand why someone would have sex with others in the absence of having a wonderful partner they love, of course; and, while I have to care about someone to have sex at this point in my life, I don't have to be in love. But having sex with the man I love makes it 1,000,000x indescribably more amazing. It just does.
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