BiscuitXOXO Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Here we go: I am a freshman college girl. My best friend, A, went to a different university while her boyfriend, B, is at the same place as me. On Facebook about a week ago, A became "facebook official" with another boy, C. Evidently A and B had broken up a couple of weeks ago, which I knew nothing about. They were not "facebook official." A and B had been together for almost three years(since sophomore year.) During that time they fought a lot, until last year when they "broke up" but still hung out together. When I asked A what was going on, she said they weren't bf and gf, but they were just good friends. Now, when A and C are hooking up, B texts me, "We just broke up and she found another guy already?" I was like, "Wait...ya'll were going out?" B was like "Of course. We went out on dates all the time during the summer." Which is news to me. B was planning on visiting her a lot. When he saw C there on his visits, A assured him that C was "just a friend." Now B is pissed. I attempt to comfort him. And to be honest, I think C is a nerdy goofball(I've seen and talked to him), which isn't nice, but this is anonymous so I don't care. B is a negative, depressing guy, but really funny and harbors romantic tendencies. I'm also confused; A didn't even tell me she and B were going out, and now she hooks up with some other guy. She's also acting differently; more wannabe preppy, I guess. Evidently B said something to A, and A facebooked me saying, "i know B is butthurt, but it's hard to believe the things he claims you said. like for instance, to have you guys delete all forms of communication and never talk to me again? stuff about how you have come to a consensus that i'm different and you don't know how i will fit into your life, how you don't know if we will still be friends? and just general **** about C and my new life. it hurts me to think about it. i wish we could talk" I sent back a reply explaining that no, I have not deleted all forms of communication, that I do want her in my life, that I do think she is different but her boy problems have nothing to do with me, that I think C is not good for her, but it's her life so I won't judge, I'm her friend no matter what. She hasn't replied. Is she mad at me? Did I say something wrong? I'll post my reply if anyone requests to read it. This is already long.
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