DecimusXVI Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 Im new so forgive me if there is some forum etiquette that i do not understand. So i dated this girl for two years, we had a great time for the first year and 3 months, then right after Christmas of last year she started becoming distant. We went to two different colleges in two different towns and it never seemed to be a problem until then. She came to visit me and i went home to visit her every weekend. March of this year she broke up with me suddenly, and i didn't see it coming. She said she needed time alone to work things out in her life, so we broke up. We began hanging out again and doing things together a week later and she opened up the possibility of us getting back together. Then again suddenly she said she didn't want to get back together so we hugged, she cried, and i left and disappeared from her life. Three weeks later she texted me and said she wasn't happy being without me and wanted to meet. We started dating again a week later and things seemed to be alright. A week after that.. she texted me and said she didnt want to be with me because i wasn't the person i was when we started dating the first time. Once again, i was gone, but this time i was pissed, i got mad and thought I burned the bridges. But a few months ago she texted me and said she missed me a lot and that she could see us getting back together in the future so she wanted to be friends for a wile. So right now we are friends. When we hung out again for the first time, i looked her in the eyes and asked "I don't want to be abandoned again, do you really plan on being with me again, and not for a few days and end it?" And she said yes and smiled. It has been like this for almost two months, being "friends". But it feels more like dating without any real commitment. Am i being a gullible idiot? Should i just say forget it and be done with her? What should i do?
Author DecimusXVI Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 Any advice would be helpful.
sugarmomma Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 She sounds like a huge flake and emotional train wreck waiting to happen. Don't let people toy with you like this. She is playing games with your feelings. I would tell her to lose my number.
Sabali Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Any other opinions? The opinion from Sugarmomma is the only one you need. Accept it.
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