Capthxc Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 So i posted yesterday about my situation, no actual response but i wasnt actually expecting anything, just a way for me to vent. Anyways, i've come to find out that my suspicions were true. The guy i've been paranoid about for the past month or so, the paranoia about this guy that broke up the relationship ended up being true. I was fed the lines of "he's just a friend" and "he's not my type". The whole he's not my type thing really seemed true, as they are as opposite as opposites may be. Anyways, the rebound sent me some rather crude messages today about how he was messing around with my ex, and how it feels to know that i wont ever get that again. The rational side of me is telling me to just ignore it, to just be the bigger man here and not say anything, to keep up my NC with the girl that has been going on for 4 weeks now. The irrational and testosterone fueled side of me is telling me to get some sort of revenge on the girl, whether its posting pictures i have of her online or lashing out emotionally at her. Should i just take this as the rebound feeling threatened by my presence, maybe threatened at the fact that she still thinks about me? I'd love to assume thats the case, but i really think shes playing a part of this, and its hurting me so much that i cant find the words to explain what im going through right now. They say rebounds never last, and that the ex usually comes back when she realizes what she has lost, but this is almost too much for me to bear.
thatsonlyme Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 I'm not sure how much truth is in you last paragraph. Even if rebounds don't last long, she may never come back. My ex is so much into her new life that's ridiculous! She changed the way she dresses, behaves and thinks! She was a girl who always tried to save money for our future and now she's literally blowing it away like there's no tomorrow! She's traveling, bar hopping and doing all things she was always against! As for the guy who sent you this message I wouldn't rally do anything about it. I have compromising pics of my ex but I'm a bigger man and would never post them online. Maybe you can just forward her his text id you really have to do something. I don't think she'd be happy about him texting you details of their personal life. Good luck
seibert253 Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 Be the better person here. The other dude is acting like he's in HS. Why lower yourself to his level. Block his and your Ex's emails and cellphones. You'll never move forward as long as you keep looking back. Peace,
Billie The Puppet Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 I was going to say have your email account forward all emails from him to her but forwarded emails can still be edited to be perfectly honest. Plus it may cause more drama. You can simply say I've set it to automatically forward emails so I don't see the contents but isn't it still best just to ignore and keep NC?
SadGirl23 Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Ignore it.. WHY bother to lash out on her and/or post photos of her.. NOT WORTH IT! The only thing you should post is photos of your new girlfriend with a big ol grin on your face! When shyt matters because it'll be about you, your happiness, and you getting what you deserve and not how your ex treated you As a LS member mention, "We will get through the pain, and the Dumpers will have to Live with the choice that they made!"
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