Titania22 Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 I would like to say something about the 'awkward silences'. I have found, personally, I am really confident and good at making conversation with most guys. Except when I meet someone I am really attracted to. Then it's like I lose all ability to say anything sensible (not to mention interesting). If it is like that for me, then I can well imagine it is probably like that for some guys. If you found it awkward and uncomfortable, maybe he really liked you so much, that he became 'verbally challenged'.
spiderowl Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 I suppose a few reasons come to mind: 1) you were the first person to accept a date in ages and having a chance feels much better than nothing so he's not going to give up easily; 2) it wasn't as bad for him as it was for you - maybe you felt it was hard work because you were doing all the work and he was finding it easier than he usually does (for the same reason!); 3) he liked you, felt it went badly, but is kidding himself it was because you were both nervous; 4) he found you physically attractive and wants to sleep with you; the rest doesn't matter for a fling.
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