XXStarsXX Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 Hi.I have this crush.....and I don't know what's going on between us,'cause....I'm kinda shy..... You see,about two years ago,we were best friends,and I wasn't shy to talk to him at all.A year later,I just became shy.....it doesn't make sense to me. We only talk once in a long while,and it's so unexpecting.In other words,we only talk when we have a "chance encouter" every now and then.He seems to be shakey when we do talk. Is there any way to get over this shyness,or at least reduce it?
Yvette_Sveden Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 Just go for it. It happens to all of us. There's no way you can get the result you want without taking the risk. The longer you wait to act on the idea of expressing your interest in him, the sooner he'll be attracted to another girl and develop feelings for her. Everyone gets nervous when they're on the verge of taking a big step. If it works out, give thanks to yourself for taking the risk and letting him know how you feel. If it doesn't work out, then at least you know what his answer would've been all this time. A lot of men like it if the woman breaks the ice. Yvette from Sweden
Mycroft Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 I agree with the above post. Also being the woman you don't have to do anything too dramatic. Just start conversations with him. You say he seems nervous as well, that's a good sign, help him out and keep you 2 talking. If hes interested he will figure out he needs to progress things.
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