2sunny Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 Ok so I have just had a text from MM (very rare as his wife uses his phone too) and he has just told me that he is missing me and that he loves me!!! I only saw him this afternoon at work and I cannot believe he has just told me that when I have just decided to leave and end this . . . why would he say that to me when I have not said it to him and I am not seeing him until Monday and as far as he is aware he has me just where he wants me anyway? Could he maybe, possibly, love me . . . really and truly what if he really has just fallen in love again?? QUESTION TO ALL - Do men who are married never fall in love with another woman and want to spend their lives together as they would do if they were single? Does that never happen? NEVER??? text him back and tell him IF he loves you - he will get divorced to be with ONLY you. ask him directly if he is willing to do that? ask it as a yes or no question so he can't move away from the question with excuses. let's see what he responds with, eh? go ahead, ask! find out what he's willing to do to have you...
fooled once Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 Could he maybe, possibly, love me . . . really and truly what if he really has just fallen in love again?? This part of your post is so sad to me. You want so badly to be loved (and yes, you SHOULD be loved) but honey, HE IS MARRIED. HE IS MARRIED. You seem to be latching onto him so hard because you are so lonely and right now, so needy. You want someone to love you. I get that. But he isn't the RIGHT person to love you. Please, PLEASE - get some counseling to deal with why you are so focused on this guy and why you don't LOVE YOURSELF. You can't love anyone else right unless you love YOU right first.
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