laurant Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 hi advice please if you have read my previous txt you will understand! Me and my wife had a break from the 15th sept and on tues 28th we met up and she said she wasnt prepared to give me another chance but since then we have been txtin n i think gettin on ok but we are supposed to be goin to kenya on the 25th october but i dont know how to mention it and she hasnt said anything. We are however split up so heres the letter i am thinking of sending! I’m writing this letter as I have something to ask you that I can not txt and time is too short to wait until I can mention it face to face. I totally understand if you say NO given the present situation and your feelings towards me but before you do, can I just explain something. I realise my insecurities have caused the end of our marriage and lost me a best friend, lover and wife, but I am going to counselling to address and sort out my issues and realise that is going to take time. I would still like to think we are good friends and as this is a holiday of a lifetime and we have been through so much to go, you would consider still coming. It would be as just friends as I have accepted you do not feel comfortable staying in a relationship with me because of my attitude and I would have done the same thing in your shoes. You have my word that I will not do anything to make you feel uncomfortable in any way or use this to win you back as know I could not make you happy until I have sorted out my issues. I do not want us regretting we missing out, on going to a place we both thought would be amazing. Especially since everything has been paid for and all we have to do is turn up. I have looked into changing the names so you could have gone with Steph but it was too late and would be classified as a cancellation, and we would loose 90% of the money. If you would still like to go, then let me know and I will sort everything out and the dogs.
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