manchild Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 hey all I was just seeing if I should say anything on her birthday which is Sunday even though she didnt on mine two weeks ago we havnt had any contact since august 17th but i did see her at football game on sept 25 and talk very little but she has turned our secret phone on the last few days that we had why we dated why is she doing that the guy i think his case in court didnt go as planned so i dont know if she is starting to have doubts and missing me or needs someone to talk to. anyways you can find my story here in the forums its crazy deal with her new guy whats people opinion why dont she just come out and say something if she swants me to text or talk to her on that phone im so lost. hmmmm is that what she is looking for or what? she hasnt had that phone on in weeks im really shocked should i just wait until after her bday or what is yall opinions.
Billie The Puppet Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 Do yourself a favor and act like you never checked to see if the phone was active do not take this as a sign. Don't initiate contact. A birthday is not a reason to break NC.
Author manchild Posted October 7, 2010 Author Posted October 7, 2010 even if u want to make up or get back or whatever
Billie The Puppet Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 even if u want to make up or get back or whatever Who is the dumpee? If you are you shall stay in NC.
Author manchild Posted October 7, 2010 Author Posted October 7, 2010 i was dumpee gah its is ridiculous what she has done wow!!
Billie The Puppet Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 I know it sucks but had you not checked her secret phone you wouldn't be over analyzing the situation at hand. Just go on like you haven't. However she may now of your digits on call display but you could still go on as you didn't purposely make the call. Ie buttdialed. I've seen dropped hints from my ex for the first month since the break up and I was on LC. I acted on them and got rejected forcing me into NC since then I have seen only one sign of but believe it to be a ploy to get me to break my NC which is soon to enter week 6. Her msn statuses also seem to be bait statuses too. I'm not into games if she truly wants to talk she will pick up the phone but neither of us since NC started. Yes I fail complete NC as I check FB which I can only see info and profile picture album. I'm also in contact with the ex's sister who she herself tells me to move on so now my brain is finally seeing negative signs too.
thatsonlyme Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 I'm under impression that even if a women misses you after breaking up with you, she still wouldn't give you another chance no matter what. Why is that?
Banega100 Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 we forget that following a break up, the woman has chosen that she'd rather be alone, or be with some one else, than be with you. Now when her interest gets to that point, there is honestly no way back. This is not any sort of sign, you are reading alot into it, she could be turning it on to see if it works or anything. Don't contact her on her birthday, and do not contact her unless she says 'i made a mistake i want you back'. And get on with your life. good luck buddy.
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