juand Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 My ex and i have been broken up for three weeks, i saw her with a guy and she texted me the next day explaining that "she met that guy for work" Why would she do that if she doesnt want anything to do with me anymore.
meowzers26 Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 I think that she's explaining about the new guy because she still loves you and by explaining about the new guy she thinks she'll possibly still have a chance with you. If she didn't care anymore about you she wouldn't take her time to explain .
Trovador Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 It seems to me it's more of a fight than a break up... it also shows that the girl has some heart...
alliance_820 Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 Honestly, Im not too sure. It could be she doesnt want to hurt you, or it could be something more than that. Id just ask her why she would tell you that, just be honest with her.
Billie The Puppet Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 It's not what you want it ti mean. During Limited Contact with my ex she would tell me about guys and follow it by I don't have to worry they are not her type. It was basically a tease factor.
Tayla Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 It's not what you want it ti mean. During Limited Contact with my ex she would tell me about guys and follow it by I don't have to worry they are not her type. It was basically a tease factor. Teaser how?? Out of due regard sometimes people explain things to ease the transistion, sorry that you took her sharing tales as a teaser....odd to say the least (Sorry had to respond to that remark) To the OP - See my same response to Billie, sometimes we all need to ease the transistion. I am 99% sure when you saw her with the guy you wanted a logical reason or any reason at all....so she chose to step up to the plate and ease the matter...It is what it is....over-analyzing does no good.
Ajax Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 It's not what you want it ti mean. During Limited Contact with my ex she would tell me about guys and follow it by I don't have to worry they are not her type. It was basically a tease factor. I've known many girls who've talked about guys who either weren't their type or otherwise didn't like. Then after breaking up with their boyfriends ended up with these guys anyway. Now when I girl talks about a guy she doesn't like I think, "she likes him."
Billie The Puppet Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 The point of my reply was just because they are trying to justify her reasons for being seen with said guy to her ex, doesn't really mean she wants her ex back or wants to still appear single infront of the ex. By tease factor I meant trying to make you jealous. My response to my ex was why are you telling me about other guys for one are you trying to make me jealous and secondly it's none of my business if thus person is your type or not And I won't worry either because quite frankly if we are broken up we both are allowed to see other people.
paleblue Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 because she's trying not to come across as a ho, but its too late. sorry
Trovador Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 I don´t get it... making the ex jeaolus by saying she wasn´t into the guy? Transitioning? Why in hell my ex would do that so she can ease her transition towards singlehood? If I were her, I´d give a damn about my ex seeing me (that has happened actually) and the least in my mind would be text them to clarify matters... I don´t find a single reason I would do that... save if I wanted my ex back... but that's me of course...
Billie The Puppet Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 I don´t get it... making the ex jeaolus by saying she wasn´t into the guy? Transitioning? Why in hell my ex would do that so she can ease her transition towards singlehood? If I were her, I´d give a damn about my ex seeing me (that has happened actually) and the least in my mind would be text them to clarify matters... I don´t find a single reason I would do that... save if I wanted my ex back... but that's me of course... It's worded so it sounds like they want you back, it is an ego factor when really they are just gauging whether or not you are still interested and the side effect of that is to see if you get jealous if so It proves you are still into them. If someone wants you they will make it known they want you not play stupid games as such. No words from an ex other than those that directly imply they want you back mean they want you back. If they want you back they will make it known and not hide it behind games.
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