meowzers26 Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 So in the summer i had got in a relationship , and everything was great. Two days after getting in a relationship I had got a call from my ex from 3 years. Not only was I shocked because he never calls but it was right after i got in a new relationship. He told me that his girlfriend and him hadn't been working out. Also, he recently had a baby and his girlfriend wouldn't let him see the baby. He started talking about how he missed me & that I was always the girl for him. I let out everything that I've been bottling up for years about him cheating and felt so relieved.He eventually asked if we could see each other, of course I said no I'm in a relationship and I really like this guy. He hung up on me, because he's not used to me being with another guy. Now we don't talk at all. I just want to know if I did the right thing?
livelife Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 of course you did the right thing!! Its been two years, if he realized you were the right girl, he wouldnt have waited until him and this girl crash and burn. Is he expecting you to have been waiting for him that whole time? I can understand that he was just upset that you had a guy, but still. You aren't going to stay single your whole life. Your new guy would be worried if you went to hang out with your ex, it would show that you have feelings for him still. You did the right thing
Lemontang Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Hell yeah you did the right thing! You've moved on, he moved on, heck he cheated on you and went off and had a kid and just because that didn't work out he's hoping he can call you off the bench to play again and find solace. Do you really want to take that baggage back on? especially since you've now moved on as well.
Author meowzers26 Posted October 6, 2010 Author Posted October 6, 2010 thanx you guys for your opinions. I'm glad to know I did the right thing (:
rattled Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Man, that's a dumpers dream right there. I'd kill for the day to reject my ex...would be the ultimate euphoria!
Author meowzers26 Posted October 7, 2010 Author Posted October 7, 2010 Man, that's a dumpers dream right there. I'd kill for the day to reject my ex...would be the ultimate euphoria! dont worry rattled, your day will come. I've learned that eventually they come running back , when you least expect it too
Sambo Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 No you didn't do the right thing. The right thing was to tell this guy off the day he screwed you over and not have to suffer for 3 years with that inside you. Better late then never I guess, now get on with your new man and be HAPPY !
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