reknown29 Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 i was dumped and have been a total wreck. i tried no contact and she keeps on contacting me. she reaches out at 1a wanting to come over, etc sometimes I resist but one time I had her come over and we had sex. it was intimate pwerful sex. the next day she sends me a text complaining about her job etc and saying that she didnt have anyone else to talk to at this late hour so she called me. i felt something was up and this broke out into a fight. i made the mistake of arguing with her via text... she says i am the worst thing that has ever happened to her. i have been so sweet to this girl. nothing but the nicest guy to her... she says cruel things that have left deep emotional scars in me. after a week she i feel bad and ask her if we can stop the hate. she then asks to meet up for dinner. it goes fairly well considering. there were some angry moments and sad moments. she continued to say i am the worst things that has ever happened to her. we went over the failure of our relationship. etc. so the next couple days she asks me a favor. i go to her place and she asks if she can be inappropriate with me. she then gets on my lap and starts kissing my neck. we get very passionate and i start to think she wants to come back to me. it almost got to sex when i initiated but she said stop thinking about that as she has my finger in her mouth. i say im leaving as she has to go... she walks me to the door and sadly watches me leave. as im driving away i text her who is the other guy (i had a hunch)? she says do you really want to know? im dating several people right now. i actually know who they are through fb? she can not be alone. she starts new relationships before breaking the old ones so she never spends a moment alone. she did this with me. what just happened? am i getting a second chance or am i just there in case the new things dont work out. are the guys shes dating not holding up to me? any insight?
Trovador Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Don't be so easy... That is if you want something more than gratuituous sex... But honestly, and sorry for saying this, is that the woman you want as the mother of your children?
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