bellringer13 Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 Is this strange behavior or not, The rockettes are coming to town and i love that christmas show, stbxh and I always went to new york to see the show. so this yr I wanted to take my son for the first time, stbh left me for another woman in january we are divorcing tomorrow is pretrial, anyway, I told him I was going to put the tickets on the credit card and take son for my birthday, he pays the credit card anyway, so he says no dont buy them, I want to get them for you. he tells me figure out the day and time you want to go and let me know monday, so i did and i emailed him the day and time and wrote let me know when they come in so i know you got them, so monday he calls my cell 3 times i didnt answer, i called him back and he says I am gonna get the tickets for that date and time, I said yeah ok, when I get home 3 messages on the machine, you home i am gonna get those tickets and the other 2 messages were pretty much the same, wondering if i was home and he was gonna get them. I think he is messed up. I was thinking mabey its because we have pre trial and he wants to look good.
You Go Girl Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Trial? You two can't figure it out without a trial and yet he's buying you tickets? Where are these 'gift' tickets? "gonna buy them" and "bought them" are two different things.
Author bellringer13 Posted October 6, 2010 Author Posted October 6, 2010 Hi you go girl, Yes trial, I am dealing with a man and his father who will do anything to screw me, there is alot of money at stake, he is claiming he cant afford to pay child support and alimony, we live in a 6 hundred thousand dollar home, he pays all the bills, He made over a hundred grand a yr, and claims he cant pay. He did buy the tickets, he dropped them off yesterday. I wish we could have done this without the trial, i am nervous as hell, he is manipulitive, its all about saving his money. i wish i had time to tell you about the family, there all about the money, he lives in his dads 2 million dollar home and claims he is paying him 1000 a month rent, which is bs. they buy bmws and mercedes like i buy shoes. and they would just asume see me and my son with nothing. the tickets must be for brownie points in court, he went as far as to say to both attns he bought me a car while we were married, his own lawyer looked at him funny and said well yeah she was you wife. he is all about the material things. He has tried to get me to sit down with him and his dad no attns involved, but even his own aunt told me not to do it without attns, they will take advantage of me. its a sad sad situation, especially since there is a little bou involved and he dont want to pay for him.
Author bellringer13 Posted October 6, 2010 Author Posted October 6, 2010 Hi go girl, thought i would update on how the pre trial went, first of all stbx convieniently forgot the apraisel he was asked to bring, He is a business man and never forgets anything so that was a lie, he had his own apraiser do it and i am sure lowered it, they no alot of people. He again said he couldnt pay me anything, both lawyers went to the judge, we didnt see have to, his lawyer didnt want to either she just wanted my lawyer and herself to talk, when they went to the judge he was appauled and wanted to have a trial today, but the lawyers refused, he ordered a depisition for stbx, the judge cant understand why if stbx petitioned this divorce why he is dragging his feet, I can give him that answer its because he wont part with the money he has hidden. He had businesses he has sold, and the judge told my lawyer to get on the computer and get all those businesses names. stbx dont know what he is in for. I think he is getting ready to fire his own lawyer cause he dont think she is doing anything, he thinks the laws should be on his side only. my lawyer told me to try to stay away from him this week because she knows how he is and he isnt gonna be happy about having the deposition. its all about the monye, believe me i wish it didnt have to go this way but he is ruthless, and wants what he wants. If i ever just sat down without attns involved i would be living on the street with my son. My son isnt a priority to him, he learned that from his mother, he was never priority to her. its sad. all i want is what i am entitled to, he dont get it. I should get the bare minimum is what he thinks. prob even less than that. so thats the reason there will be a trial. I want it over but i wont give up my fight, he thinks if he prolongs it i will give in. hes nuts. he is only making me want to fight more.
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