andrew-bkk Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 This is a true story that may be of interest to some. I came to the country where I now live eleven years ago. I met HER after six months. We have been together ever since and have a six year old son. Things were never perfect but we tried. I went off her a lot over the last six months. Two months ago I discovered her cheating. The guy in question is one of the highest-paid foreigners in this country. I am 46; she is 36; the other man is 63. I asked her to move away from my house. And she did. But then she phoned me after work. She said she wanted to come and see me. She said she still loved me. She wanted to go out with me in the evening. She said she wanted the "perfect family". She talked a lot about getting back together. But it was all a lie. She was just using me as a way of alleviating any guilt she may have felt for ruining her son's life. She never stopped seeing the other man. I recently ended everything once and for all by telling her that I no longer believe that her son is mine. I said I will never pay maintenance or school fees. All of this stuff hurts. It hurts a lot. But being cruel and callous is the only way I can move on. Keeping her in my life destroys me. It gives me false hope and affects my health and my work. So now it's all finished. I miss her. I miss her a lot. But at least I am in a position to finally move on. Any feedback or comments or observations appreciated.
Don Ho Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 Sorry to hear about your situation Bro. Not to insult her, but she's a cheating ho and a gold digger. 63? Come on. You should see that as a joke and laugh in her face. Good for you for cutting her out. Do not let her back. Move on and find one that will be faithful.
Author andrew-bkk Posted October 5, 2010 Author Posted October 5, 2010 Not to insult her, but she's a cheating ho and a gold digger. 63? Come on. You should see that as a joke and laugh in her face. Thanks for that, dude. I really appreciate it. You're right. I know it. You know it. And everyone else does, too. Problem is, I still have feelings. But I'm getting good. Soon I'll be very good. But I guess it just takes time. But yeah -- what a f...ing ho!!
TomerT Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Move on and find one that will be faithful. Is such thing exist ? Really ? How can you know that she will be faithful ? Everyone "faithful" at the beginning, no ? I think there is no such thing as "find your self faithful"..There are no guarantees in this life.
Don Ho Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Tomer. Come on Bro, many are tramps a few are not. Sure no guarantees, but, for example, if you hook up with the hot party girl, that's what you get.
TomerT Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Sorry, not agree... My last gf was very "quiet"...from "good family", good education and allthis stuff...the one you wouldn't never think she can cheat... And... you are welcome my threads to see what she did to me... So, after that, I really don't think there is such thing exist...At least I expect my next gf to be smart enough if she does something, to do it in a way that I will never know or even have a reason to concern...
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