Polarflame Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 Hi all, I just got dumped by my boyfriend of two years today. I don't have any friends other than him so I don't have anyone to talk to but myself. I just want someone to talk to. I don't really know why he broke up with me. he just said we're over. All I ever wanted was respect. He couldn't just said sorry. I didn't want to break up. I love him too much. The worse part is that he broke up with me over the text. I guess that's not the worst part....I have the same class schedule as him everyday and also laboratory sessions with him on the same bench.. He probably doesn't love me anymore...or doesn't love me since the beginning....He's probably just been toying with me..my world reveolved around him..and he just ended it without telling me why...he's always angry at me for no reason...i don't know how to forget him...i don't want to...
Leandro Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 Hi PolarFlame. Welcome to LS Are y'all both young?
thatsonlyme Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 Polarflame, I feel your pain, I felt the same after my 5 year realtionship ended. I basically had no social life while we were together, only mutual friends, most of them I met through her because she is just kind of person that attracts people. Even now, two months later I'm struggling with my social life, most of the time I go places alone and that's not fun. I'm trying to change my mindset and enjoy being alone but it's sometimes hard. I want to travel but I have nobody to go with. However, few of our mutual friends helped me out a lot. I met some new people through them and even though building new friendships is a slow process, it's getting better and better. I'm sure if you look around you will also find somebody you know who'd like to have you around. You're a girl, just don't sit at home, go to the coffee shop or bookstore and sooner or later you'll get approached. Or you can take a first step and approach somebody. You will never know for sure if he ever loved you, but sometimes guy can act that way because they're trying to hurt you less. I guess people have different approaches on breakup. Some people think if they act like d***s you will easier get over them. Some people, like my ex just don't care about your feelings anymore and they even want to be friends. It's easy for them, they don't feel anything towards you but it's hard being friends if you still love the person. I know this is already getting old but all you can do is get over it. Take you time to grieve, cry and think about him, it's all natural process. It will get better, trust me. Two months after my break up I do feel a lot better and I loved this person more than anything in the world. Good luck
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