When a woman starts talking about sex in general

[irc333]

There's this woman I know, she's kind of a friend, I kind of fell off the planet, lost interested in staying in touch, because she was still "seeing a guy" that was toxic for her.

 

Then like 6 months later, out of the blue, she contacts me online and asks me to go with her to an event with her, and to pick her up....this was a spur of the moment kind of thing, with other people.

 

But I have a thing for her, but she's hard to read.....she'snow over that guy though, but still going through some issues, so I'm trying to guard my own self, too. Apparently, she has baggage from previous relationships, tends to talk about said baggage, too.

 

But, when she's not talking about that or other things, she's saying sexual things, we were out with a group the other night, and she showed me this picture of a sculpture she took at a couples house while she was baby sitting there.

 

It was a sculpture, of 2 people having sex obviously...and she was giggling while she was showing me, she was scrolling through photos and showing me others, and she showed me a picture she took of her own cleavage. lol

 

I don't know if she's being a tease or not, but I really don't know how to read her.

 

Is she interested in me in THAT way?

 

Her B-day is coming up, and I sent her an email offering to take her out for her B-day, so I'm seeing where that goes.

[tincanman99]

She is teasing you either for her amusement or genuinely wants to hook up with you.

 

I sense though you are going to fall for her and than get burned. I would put money on it. If I were you, I would stay away.

[Feelin Frisky]

yeah, she's revealing her hot sexual self to you. Green light.

[Mike B.]

If you want any chance of this turning into something very positive for you, don't take the bait now. She is giving you good signals but you could screw up if you jump all over it now. Just continue to play it cool and laugh with her about it. If she is interested in hooking up with you, she will likely make this much more obvious. Let her initiate this one and once she makes things plain-as-day where there is no question in your mind that she is tingling for you, pounce on the opportunity. The way to screw this one up is to pounce too early and too early would be before you get the plain-as-day signal.

[Seamless74]

be careful sometimes that stuffs a test... dont talk about sex or get too raunchy before you have it .... I think its a secret test girls give to see how perverted or desperate you are or you say something too over the top that grosses her out beware...