SithLord Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Recently broke up from my x after 3 years. Ive grown to become unhappy..Had no contact for over a month, wanted to be friends she didnt. fast forward, she ran back to her Ex after 3 weeks of trying to work things out and having sex with him...I was fine and not thinking about her and moving on with life until i found that out and my Ex texting me confirming it, although i did not respond, giving me a speech like i need closure. it stung me and now im the dumbass feeling the effects. any thoughts on this? I know dont want to go back bc it'll be for all the wrong reasons.
pandagirl Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Recently broke up from my x after 3 years. Ive grown to become unhappy..Had no contact for over a month, wanted to be friends she didnt. fast forward, she ran back to her Ex after 3 weeks of trying to work things out and having sex with him...I was fine and not thinking about her and moving on with life until i found that out and my Ex texting me confirming it, although i did not respond, giving me a speech like i need closure. it stung me and now im the dumbass feeling the effects. any thoughts on this? I know dont want to go back bc it'll be for all the wrong reasons. It's a rebound. And believe me, the EASIEST rebound to have, is one with an ex!
Author SithLord Posted October 4, 2010 Author Posted October 4, 2010 Yeah what got to me was the fact, wow u having sex with him and ur so call love for me 3 years didnt mean nothing at all. I know I wanted out but as humans u know we are selfish.
pandagirl Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Yeah what got to me was the fact, wow u having sex with him and ur so call love for me 3 years didnt mean nothing at all. I know I wanted out but as humans u know we are selfish. Don't sweat it. It's also called rebound sex. Fills the emptiness temporarily and is for the emotionally weak who can't be alone.
Author SithLord Posted October 4, 2010 Author Posted October 4, 2010 Thank u for answering all questions so far. Her friend tells me oh she stop talking about u, only talks about the new guy, how their sex life is etcccc, how lots of guys want her..but its funny my x writes to me like i know your Upset, and air everything out would bee good for us, then later she said u. Thank god i had the poweer to ignore the text, yet she writes oh i still care about u, but not enough that u find urself havin sex with someone else. its crazy how all this is effecting me, when i was fine
PegNosePete Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 You're the one who dumped her, and refused all her attempts at reconciliation. You have no right to complain about who she does or doesn't have sex with.
Author SithLord Posted October 4, 2010 Author Posted October 4, 2010 Of course, It's my mind messing with me, I wasn't thinking about all this when I wanted out.
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