tinybear5 Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 why cant he just let me go NC with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! everytime i ask him or jsut try to "cut him out" ... he says "why?" or "noo i dont want that"....he says things to me like "i just need the old you back and everything will be ok".......wth does that mean!? its been a month and i constently feel like im being pulled back and fouth. what do i do? hes always texting me! i try to be nice to him but its soo hard so be alrigght with just being "his friend"
jayone Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Change your number, email address and facebook and anything else he knows. Tell your friends who he knows not to give out your personal information. Put his email address on a blacklist, block his phone number (dont answer with helds or numbers you don't know) and make yourself totally invisible on facebook so he can see your pic but cant message you or anything. You dont even want to be his friend. No contact all together is the best way.
Billie The Puppet Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 By responding you are breaking NC not him, they are allowed to contact it just needs to be your will power not to answer. Do what the above user suggested if it aids that process. Hang in there sista. Send a straight forward email that requests no contact and if you put enough into it it will work ever since I did my ex hasn't even attempted to contact me. I kind of wished I hadn't sent that so I'd have something from her side to ignore.
Author tinybear5 Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 yeah but the problem is i do want to work things out with him so i dont want to just ignore him..but i think he needs to see what its like without me in his life everyday...
Billie The Puppet Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 yeah but the problem is i do want to work things out with him so i dont want to just ignore him..but i think he needs to see what its like without me in his life everyday... Trust me I know about not wanting to ignore because you think all contact is meant to reconcile. That's why I had LC for a month and now NC for a month. Just respond unless you want to work things out between us don't contact me each time and he will either get so annoyed and not contact you like you want NC or he will give it another go (very rare)
Author tinybear5 Posted October 4, 2010 Author Posted October 4, 2010 well i met up with him yesterday. we decided on something since every since the day we broke up we have not been able to go a day without talking. he keeps saying he needs a chance to miss me and stuff but i was being so clingy during the past month that it was driving him crazy....so, our desision was not to speak/text/IM or ANYTHING for an entire month ...so nov 3rd, were going to revisit this and see whats going on. ughh, anyone think im setting myself up for heartbreak again??? i mean, its going to be a whole month, for a whole month he's finally going to be able to see what is like to not have me in his life anymore . . . i hope making a good choice with this ..thoughts anyone??
j0sh Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Its a hard thing to do, but if you truly believe you are doing thing right thing (nc, which you are) then you have to be mean.
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