Stewie Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 After a 3 year relationship, after some stupid fights my girlfriend thought it's better to end the relation. I made efforts convincing her that she does a mistake and that we can sort out all the problems we had in the past. She blocked the dialog betwen us and for about a month we didn't spoke but I never stopped hoping she will call and that we will get back together. She called a few times and she asked me to come talk to her at her job. I went there and we spoke for some hours. I asked her to meet again in few days for a few minutes and she finally agreed. I'm not sure what should I say when we'll meet so that I won't make here get further away from me. I was thinking about buying her a flower, telling here again about my feelings, that I want her back...She told me she needs more time to clear hear mind to find out what she wants. I think the best way is to try not to call her again for a while. But for how long ? How long is enough. 1 month ? 2 months ? We have a 'history' together , I was her first and she was my first but I always hidden from here the fact that she was the first girl I had sex with and she always lived with the impression that I was more experienced than she was. Now that we are separated she told me on that phone that she suffers more, that she was involved more, me being her first man. Do you think it's a good idea now, in the last possible moment to tell her that I am as inexperienced as she is, that I suffer as much or even more than she does? Will this make her want the relation back or will she be angry that I hided this for that long? Any suggestions are appreciated. I thought a lot about our relation in the past weeks and I really want her back and I am really determined to make the changes she asked for.
Banega100 Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 you shouldn't have lied, but telling her you're suffering etc, and telling her how you feel, will make you look weak and pathetic, so avoid that. Why are you meeting her? more to the point, why is she meeting you?
Author Stewie Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 Well, she is under the impression that I didn't give a damn about the relation. I am trying to prove the other way by being honest on how I feel. The first time we met after braking it up was her idea. Now it was my ideea. I want to talk to hear and hope I can make thinks more clear. I know her well enough to figure out if she's lying when I'm face to face with her.
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