Can't get that ***** out of my life..

[Cuchara2]

So I'm no contacting my ex, but it seems I always see some sort of reminder everywhere.. Facebook is a death trap (read my rant about it), but now all of these photo albums of hers appear on the right navigation bar, saying Ex was tagged in her album 7 months ago, help tag your friends *isnert picture of ex*, she comments on these pictures of my sisters where I have also commented, she "likes" my comments, she "likes" all these dodgy pages which are obviously directed towards me and whatever she says to anyone appears on my facebook home page. I will not remove her as a friend because I don't want to come off as rude, and she'll take it as just that. I also go on there a lot to check up on my friends all around the world and brother who's in a different country.

 

Now we move on to msn/skype. She constantly goes online/offline so there's a reminder every hour or two in the bottom right corner saying she's just come online, just testing to see if I'll click it and talk to her. Then, there are all these dodgy sayings she has on her personal message.

 

And in real life, she's talking loads to all my best friends, which she did not do before had. We have the same friends and I always see her, it gets hard to ignore her sometimes..

 

This was just a rant of mine trying to get **** off my mind. She dumped me after 2 years and I'm trying to move on but it's made hard by things like this..

 

If she talks directly to me through IM's, what do I do? I don't really want to get back with her unless she wants to have some massive conversation and I can vent out how I feel but I don't want to seem easy either. Do I ignore her for like 10 minutes then say sorry I'm really busy? I still love her to bits but I'm angry too.

 

Any comments on how to ignore this stuff or any comments at all about my situation are greatly appreciated

 

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaggghhh.

[Billie The Puppet]

That was me a few weeks ago, Now she is never online (Or appearing offline to avoid me on both MSN and FB) After I sent a heartfelt email requesting NC. I broke NC before by answering all her attempts and verbally asked for NC but the last time we contacted each other I was full of emotions and fighting for her counter arguing everything because I thought I saw signs in her MSN statuses etc and it blew up. Now we haven't been in contact for 29 days. She still has me in her profile pictures, she added a recent profile picture with her wearing the key to my heart necklace I gave her but now has recently hid her albums except profile pictures so I can't see them. It will fade with time eventually as does everything. Either way is lose-lose if we want our ex's back because in reality it doesn't happen as often. We can't keep in contact because it makes us weak, and going NC we fear we will lose them or they will lose interest but the thing is we have already lost them and interest so it's best to keep NC up and going for us to heal.

 

FB is killer though and I myself can't bring myself to unfriend or block my ex but I have untagged all photos of myself and her but she hasn't done the same(though she has blocked me from viewing her photos) Photo memories still brings her up a lot of the times even with me untagged and her blocking me viewing her photos. The only way we can truthfully find peace is if we block them which I can't bring myself to do for some reason.

 

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[Cuchara2]

Yeeaahhh I know what you feel like. Death to facebook -.-

[Username37]

I can't avoid her either.

 

She's a FB whore. She has pictures everywhere. I cannot log on FB anymore because even if I block her, I cannot AVOID her. Plus she has a new BF so seeing everything would be so killer.

 

She's on my IM and Skype too. I check if she's online. She logs on IM a lot (she's on now) and she goes on skype really late (probably talking to the new boy)

 

She stole my friends and put me through a lot of ****.

 

Advice: Find better friends, avoid FB totally and delete her from IM/Yahoo/Skype etc.