bingedrinking Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Contrary to popular perception, I feel that women are not really suited for marriage. The fact is most women have problems with maintaining their interest for their husband. They are so unstable that a lifeling commitment is not really possible for them. They are intense at the beginning (which fools men into marrying them) but then become totally cold. It seems like a common modus operandi of many women. What do you guys think?
BruceLeroy Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 I think a binge drinker should find a different hobby than finger pointing.
Tony T Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Contrary to popular perception, I feel that women are not really suited for marriage. The fact is most women have problems with maintaining their interest for their husband. They are so unstable that a lifeling commitment is not really possible for them. They are intense at the beginning (which fools men into marrying them) but then become totally cold. It seems like a common modus operandi of many women. What do you guys think? I think if you were a college student taking a psychology course you would flunk because of your serious generalizations. Some women may not be suited for marriage...just as some men. Many women may not be suited for marriage with you but I'm sure that there are a few that are. Marriage is a two way deal and you can't single out either party in handing out fault. Men as well as women can be really intense in the beginning and then go totally cold. Matter of fact, I've been on this forum for close to 11 years and I've seen MANY more women then men describe actual experiences with men the way you describe women here. If you've had some bad experiences, take a good look at yourself in the mirror and maybe seek help. Don't blame women for going cold on you...they may have had a very good reason for doing so and that's what you have to look at and correct...rather than spending your energy pointing a finger in the wrong direction.
porter218 Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 hahaha! Binge Drinker... Are you on a binge right now? The fact is most women have problems with maintaining their interest for their husband Can you translate this sentence ^ Do you mean they don't remain interested in their husbands? Or the don't stay interesting for their husbands? This post is just silly
carhill Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 I'm pretty sure the OP is talking about WAW (walk away wife) syndrome. I love you but am not in love with you. I need a break to find myself. I'll come back for the kids when I'm ready. If I stay another year I can collect on your social security. That kind of stuff. Not that I have any personal experience
TigerCub Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Contrary to popular perception, I feel that women are not really suited for marriage. The fact is most women have problems with maintaining their interest for their husband. They are so unstable that a lifeling commitment is not really possible for them. They are intense at the beginning (which fools men into marrying them) but then become totally cold. It seems like a common modus operandi of many women. What do you guys think? I think that's the case for many married people - but its both ways. Just like most guys are all about the romance, putting in the effort, flowers, Wine & Dine in the beginning - they can't keep that stuff up forever (not with the same passion they did @ the beginning), so maybe its fair to say, that some women can't keep up their intensity/passion either. Its definitely 2 sided from what I see/hear. Maybe its human nature - that once we know we "have" something/someone, we relax and don't put in the same amount of effort we did when we were trying to "get" them. I don't know....
waynebrady Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Contrary to popular perception, I feel that women are not really suited for marriage. The fact is most women have problems with maintaining their interest for their husband. They are so unstable that a lifeling commitment is not really possible for them. They are intense at the beginning (which fools men into marrying them) but then become totally cold. It seems like a common modus operandi of many women. What do you guys think? I'm beggining to think that aswell. It's almost always the woman who files for divorce so it would explain that.
Woggle Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 It's true. I think there is an expiration date on a woman's love. I am sorry if I offend any woman that are not like this but I really do.
nycgirl6 Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Just to add a very wide generalization to a very wide generalization post, I think women and men both have expectations of marriage. Women's are very high and men's very low. Women end up disappointed while men think - hey, this isn't so bad after all.
You Go Girl Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Well when a man chastises and condemns the entire female gender, guess he only has one more choice in love and marriage, eh? Find one of those states/countries that allows same-sex marriage, and flip to the other side. Looks like it is your only choice?
Pyro Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Contrary to popular perception, I feel that women are not really suited for marriage. The fact is most women have problems with maintaining their interest for their husband. They are so unstable that a lifeling commitment is not really possible for them. They are intense at the beginning (which fools men into marrying them) but then become totally cold. It seems like a common modus operandi of many women. What do you guys think? Its a FACT that MOST women are that way? I'd love to see your proof on this matter. Personal experience does not equate to a majority of the female population.
Pyro Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Well when a man chastises and condemns the entire female gender, guess he only has one more choice in love and marriage, eh? Find one of those states/countries that allows same-sex marriage, and flip to the other side. Looks like it is your only choice? I think its the best idea for all the woman haters here.
Woggle Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Its a FACT that MOST women are that way? I'd love to see your proof on this matter. Personal experience does not equate to a majority of the female population. Just look around and look at the statistics.
Pyro Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Just look around and look at the statistics. I look around and I see a blend of both happy and not so happy couples, so this "Most women are a certain way" crap holds no water as usual. Here you are married and you feel that way. get a divorce or go get some help.
TigerCub Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 I'm beggining to think that aswell. It's almost always the woman who files for divorce so it would explain that. hehe, well since we're generalizing, most of the women that file for divorce proabably do that because they found out their husband was cheating on them. yeah not as many men file for divorce because they would rather maintain the staus quo and just cheat - or just stay in a miserable situation because they know divorce will cost them - especially if kids are involved (which is something that's not fair to men - I admit).
InternationalPlayboy Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 It sounds like the OP is too jilted and scorned to think rationally.
Fuggem Awlle Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Wow! There sure are a lot of you men out there that are in touch with your feminine side. Really quick to bash your fellow man without asking why he feels that way. I knew kids like that in school. Those are actually the men being walked all over by their wives right now. And I am not talking about every man, just the ones being walked on. Oh, and one of the guys like that was this Psychology professor on Long Island that ended up being arrested at a theme park for exposing himself to an undercover cop on a ride. Opinions and @ssholes fellas.
loverofloveandstuff Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 It's true. I think there is an expiration date on a woman's love. I am sorry if I offend any woman that are not like this but I really do. a woman's love eh?? the same goes for men imo. As far as an expiration date for love, doesn't the 'love chemical' only last a maximum of 2 years? I don't know much about this but if anybody does, I would be interested to hear somebody elaborate about the 'love chemical.'
loverofloveandstuff Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Wow! There sure are a lot of you men out there that are in touch with your feminine side. Umm.. this has nothing to do with one's 'feminine' side. And no, a lot of LS men happen to NOT be in touch with their moronic side. Oh, and one of the guys like that was this Psychology professor on Long Island that ended up being arrested at a theme park for exposing himself to an undercover cop on a ride. Opinions and @ssholes fellas. Sorry but WTF does this have to do with anything??? Did you have a point here? Are you high?
BettyBoo Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 I am a happily married woman who has the nomal ups/downs that come with it. Of course there are women who are not suitable for marriage as there are men. In fact marriage is not for everyone. However I know that my life is enriched by my wonderful husband whom I love dearly, fancy rotten and enjoy great laughs and fun with. He is my best friend and travel companion. Yes we rub each other up the wrong way occassionaly but we laugh at our arguments and enjoy the make up.
Fuggem Awlle Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 It has plenty to do with one's feminine side! It's a bunch of guys with their heads up some woman's as for who knows what reason. Nobody knows why exactly the retarded guy said what he said, but everyone just jumped all over him. Pre-emptive strike if you will. Meaning before some woman had to. I guess then they can go to work, or to their pottery class, and tell stories about how this horrible guy said something that didn't make any sense about women, but they thought it was bad, and they told him off!! And the part about the professor was a memory I was having out loud about my first father in law. He shouldn't have gotten married. He wasn't made for it. No, I am not high, I am in Afghanistan, and it may be mind numbing, but it's not the same as being high.
Lauriebell82 Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Just to add a very wide generalization to a very wide generalization post, I think women and men both have expectations of marriage. Women's are very high and men's very low. Women end up disappointed while men think - hey, this isn't so bad after all. I would agree with this! I also think men and women deal with martial discord differently. Women are very vocal about being discontent (i.e. "I love you, but I'm not in love with you") whereas men usually do not voice their discontent, but act out in different ways, such as having an affair or becoming a workaholic to avoid home life...this of course is a generalization is does not represent all men and women as is this thread. Women also file for divorce more often for financial purposes. After all, assuming their is no prenup, divorce benefits women more then it does men.
112233 Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 It's true. I think there is an expiration date on a woman's love. I am sorry if I offend any woman that are not like this but I really do. I suspect it's cultural, when Stella got her groove on I didn't see many people calling the character a sex-tourist, or a tramp, but, spade a spade.
112233 Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Women also file for divorce more often for financial purposes. After all, assuming their is no prenup, divorce benefits women more then it does men. Very true.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 It's true. I think there is an expiration date on a woman's love. I am sorry if I offend any woman that are not like this but I really do. I don't think it has anything to do with a magic number floating in the air. I honestly think it has to do with treatment and sex. Often the man will chase the woman and once he has caught her, will stop chasing her forever. This kills things for us if we are short-sighted.
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