Hhhh Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Would one visit the house of an ex girl a couple of weeks after the break up to say farewell to the parents of the ex girlfriend if they have done a lot for them?
jayone Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Would one visit the house of an ex girl a couple of weeks after the break up to say farewell to the parents of the ex girlfriend if they have done a lot for them? Not until I am fully over the ex girlfriend. And only if my only intention of going round there is to say goodbye and not to bump into my ex.
carhill Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 No clue what is 'right', but, having done a lot for my ex-wife's family over the years, their appreciation for that generosity is shown by not remembering my phone number any more. I appreciate that. I wouldn't go visit them any more than I'd go visit her. They're background noise now, just like the rest of the world. Mutual disinterest.
jayone Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 No clue what is 'right', but, having done a lot for my ex-wife's family over the years, their appreciation for that generosity is shown by not remembering my phone number any more. I appreciate that. I wouldn't go visit them any more than I'd go visit her. They're background noise now, just like the rest of the world. Mutual disinterest. That's similar to my situation. I borrowed my ex's family nearly £4000 in total to get them out of trouble with their house. I got a text message saying I won't be getting the money back just because I was unhappy in the relationship. Never again. Again, to the OP unless you knew the ex's family before you got together, I wouldn't really bother.
Author Hhhh Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 They have done a lot I really do not want to my ex but I might I just want to leave on good terms with them because I think it's the mature thing to do rather than just disappearing... Btw the girl ended the relationship and avoided my calls
jayone Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 They have done a lot I really do not want to my ex but I might I just want to leave on good terms with them because I think it's the mature thing to do rather than just disappearing... Btw the girl ended the relationship and avoided my calls I do understand what your saying. Ultimately its your choice. Can you not call them instead? It might be easier for you and your ex that way.
Gdunkman Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 My ex's mum was and still remains a good person for me, she always tried to help us in our relations when we asked her. After I supported my ex like no one else when she was in hospital and she paid me back by ignoring me in some days during our breakup period, her mum told me "I wish you to find a normal gf next time". So I don't have negative feelings to her and I'm going to wish her happy birthday in a week.
Billie The Puppet Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 My ex dumped me, I have hung out with her sister once since and have plans to again. I wanted a final goodbye but each time I feel like I want more of a connection because not only has my ex grown on me so has her family. Her family has all said they hope we end up back together but I only feels this puts my ex's family in an awkward position because they should technically be on my ex's side of things. When I meet up with her sister as her sister is a friend of mine (met through my ex) However I would like to keep that friendship be it just through Facebook and the odd time hanging out not as a way for keeping tabs on the ex or anything like that just generally because her sister makes a good friend. In fact I make it a point not to bring up my ex what so ever when I am around her sister. The final goodbye does give you some closure I find.
Author Hhhh Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 Yeah really just want to say my final goodbyes no intentions of seeing my ex if I knew she wasn't home I would go but I dont but I don't know if it's late it has been a couple of weeks
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