feelingfine Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 So just talked to my daughter (11). She and my son are with their dad and his team at his game a couple of hours away. She then tells me that she went shopping and got a new jacket. I said oh good, it is getting chilly out. She then tells me that she was shopping with dads friend while he was at his pre game meeting. So, not only did he not ask/mention to me that he was going to have his G.F. on the road with him but that she would be taking care of our kids while he was working. WTF. I am floored, angry as hell, mad, sad...not sure what to do. Do I confront my stbx and tell him how I feel about this? Or, just stay quiet? He knows I am not comfortable with my children being around the girl. They have only met her one other time...he said it was his friend. Advice please before I do something stupid...
Iconoclast Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I think you should do nothing. After all, what, can you do? Can you legally prevent it? Perhaps depending on the conditions, but probably not. And, do you really want to go there? The other big hurt after the shock of infidelity, is the insult of being replaced. Go out with a good friend and talk it out.
Author feelingfine Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 YOu are right. I can not do anything about it. I just hate my kids having to be around her. Ok, not going to say anything. Thanks! Being replaced...you hit the nail on the head. This is a tough one to swollow for sure!
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