Backlash.......

[SithLord]

After 3 years, Ive decided to walk away from my relationship. Reasons, I was unhappy, fed up with her weight because she got to big and as a man I lost my attraction, although I supported her for over two years to help her lost it, her laziness to visit me, while I work all day, laziness to get a job, and caring too much about her sorority rather making moves to improving herself with her free time and getting rid of her 50G debt from school. Im 24, shes 21. I try to remain friends and have peace, but according to her she did not want to be friends and maybe in couple years because she did want to be friends with me while still having feelings. We broke up in April but were continuing working on the relationship until i gave up in August. After two months of nothing seeing each other and one month without talking, she tried one final time to fix but i wasnt havent it. I was fine and everything until I saw in her email cleaning up anything i left behind, and my X confirmed it after she got caught that she was seeing and having sex with her Ex boyfriend, because I ran into a mutual friend who told her I knew. Thats when my x tried to contact me and make peace, explain etccc, but i didnt answer although i wanted to..I suck it up....im suffering from backlash and is like this is what i wanted and i know i dont want to go back to her. I was fine until I knew she was having sex, is like she gave me so much heat about my X, but look at what she did and use to gave me the speech about our 3 years together down the drain..women are impulsive... I know all this shouldnt matter but is like damn, how 3 weeks after we stop working on this u went back to ur ex and started having sex.. This is why I show no mercy.. any thoughts? Usher Raymond said it best with me with this..

 

 

[Verse 1]

It's gonna burn for me to say this

But it's coming from my heart

It's been a long time coming

But we done been fell apart

Really wanna work this out

But I don't think ya gonna change ya

I do but you don't

Think it's best we go our separate ways

Tell me why I should stay in this relationship

When I'm hurting baby, I ain't happy baby

Plus theres so many other things I gotta deal with

I think that you should let it burn

 

[Chorus]

When your feeling ain't the same and your body don't want to

But you know gotta let it go cause the party ain't jumpin' like it used to

Even though this might bruise you

Let it burn

Let it burn

Gotta let it burn

[PegNosePete]

You dumped her because she gained weight, and then complain that she has found someone else who finds her attractive?

 

Dude... just... get over yourself and move on.

[SouthernSunshine]

You dumped her because she gained weight, and then complain that she has found someone else who finds her attractive?

 

Dude... just... get over yourself and move on.

 

Bahahahahaha!!

[SithLord]

I was just asking how to deal with it, because it hit me, although I know I no longer wanted to be there. it was time invested there.

[PegNosePete]

Deal with it by taking responsibility for your actions. You pushed her away, now she is gone.

Move on and learn for next time.

[Veronica K]

I was just asking how to deal with it, because it hit me, although I know I no longer wanted to be there. it was time invested there.

 

Nothing ever stays the same (or really, it shouldn't if growth is truly taking place). Yes, there was time invested, by both parties, but the only thing you can do anything about is how you live your life going forward.

[SithLord]

Veronica is like I as all the wrong questions! What does she feel etcc, I mean from her view, she contacted me saying she cared and I saw them and did t said nothin, she sent me the text I said nothing. Is like in her mind did I really care? It shouldn't matter, at the same time as humans we gonna sit there and say I know she still has feelings....it's crazy...