amoon1 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Like many break-ups, this is really complicated. My heart aches with the pain and I don't know what to do. I'm in a long relationship with a woman, whom I care for, I have two children whom I love so much, but my relationship with my partner has been loveless and empty for quite some time - we have drifted apart over the years. We stay together for the children's sake and try to put a brave face on and make an effort for them. There's a woman I work with (known her a couple of years) and we've been out a few times together and see each other every day at work. I'm totally in love with her and know I am cheating on my partner, but I'm so in love with this woman that I'd do anything to be with her. I'd leave my partner for her, but she's unprepared for me to do so. She says she could not deal with the guilt of splitting up a family. I've never done anything like this before, but I love this woman so very much and don't know what to do. I'm riddled with guilt, longing, rejection, despair.
Don Ho Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Well, if you're prepared, then you can leave your wife on your own accord. If you're really that unhappy and it's not working, then leave. You have to explain to the OM that you are doing it for YOU, not to be with her. So you have to decide if you are really doing it for you, ready to leave your wife, deal with a divorce and deal with the fact that it might not work out with the OW. Good luck.
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