Cuchara2 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 So I was at school today, doing some community service bs that is mandatory for the course I'm on and my ex was there. I did not look/talk to her at all throughout the time I was there, but just as I was leaving and saying good bye to my friends (she was there too) I hear her shout out "WTF MY MUM IS IN HOSPITAL". I took that as my leave and pretended I didn't hear it. Her mum does not speak 1 word of Greek, her dad doesn't much and neither does she. My father is good friends with the owner of the hospital, and I could easily get everything sorted for her mum and she knows that. My question is, do I text her asking if she needs anything, or do I just leave it and see if she comes to me asking for help?
flow15 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 How does she not speak greek (or her parents) when they live in greece?? Well anyway, I think she said it loud enough for you to hear it. If it were me I would be there in a second to help her... Because I know I would do it for my ex boyfriend. But then it comes to the whole them taking us for granted cos we would do anything for them. However, considering her mother is going to hospital and they don't speak greek, and if your father can help, I'd say offer to help. Your ex might be too scared to ask for your help.
Author Cuchara2 Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 She's Spanish, I go to an international school. Would something just straight up like this be the best way? Do you need any help with your mum?
Don Ho Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Bro, you're always looking for a reason to break NC. No, do not contact her. She did not ask for your help or contact you. Sure, she may be upset and so on, but it's not your responsibility anymore. It may show you care, but you'll end up looking like a pussy and be back at square one again.
flow15 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Do you live in athens? that's so weird, im spanish and my ex is greek... I actually think you should stick with what don ho says, I'm sure she will be able to get help elsewhere... and if she desperately needs your help she will probably ask. What I said before is what I would do, as I'm in the same position as you
Author Cuchara2 Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 Yeah I do live in Athens And ok, I won't talk to her then. Thanks for putting me straight.
flow15 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 haha you probably know my ex, depends what school u went to but he went to international school too.
Author Cuchara2 Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 That's creepy as hell... What school did he go to? O_o
flow15 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Haha well I would tell you, but if I reveal it, then if other people read all my other posts they might figure out who he is and tell him. (I know that is highly unlikely- but you never know! you might even know him if you went to the same school!! I swear everyone knows everyone in athens)
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