need to hear a positive spin

[runner1171]

Ok,

 

I know this is kind of stupid, but I need to hear a positive story. I broke up with my ex five months ago. Long story, it just wasn't working for me. Anyway time goes by, and I really miss her. She just wants to be friends. I can understand that I have been through the ringer once or twice in my life. But do you think it's possible for her to realize what a decent guy that I am. I think maybe she will have to date other people to realize this? I don't know I miss her and I love her, and I would like another shot. I have told her so as well.

 

I was so good to her and her little boy. Maybe she will realize that we all make mistakes and give it a second try?

 

Any good stories relating to my story?

 

Thanks,

 

 

Jim

[spencer]

READ THIS - ITS NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR

 

You broke up with her because "it wasn't working for me".

why, and what makes you think it would work for you now?

What changed?

you miss her, and think she has to date others to realize how 'decent' you were.

i think not-sorry.

Did you need to date others to realize how decent she was?

also, having a child makes it extra complicated, she may miss you also, but not want to subject her son to you deciding it wouldn't work again.

 

Things don't look good for you.

[sinkerswim]

You never know what could happen. She may have a change of heart and come back.

But keep busy.

 

So you made a mistake...you want her back. Keep trying. If you love her..keep trying.

You will know when to stop.

[curiousgeorge]

My wife and I split up after two years of seperation. Then we were together for six months. And everything came back to me about why we got seperated in the first place. Anyway I am divorced now.