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My best friend fwd me a series of photos of my bf of almost a year with another girl. I didn’t think anything of it at first because….they weren’t holding hands or anything like that. *Also after doing research it looks like he is friends with her brother* In the photos they were just standing in a corner watching people dance at some restaurant party.

 

But now….I can’t stop thinking about it. He DID mention this to me a few months ago when it happened…he told me the day after it occurred.

 

...Said his friend who works at a restaurant was invited to a party and she invited him and he went because of free drinks.

 

But the girl doesn’t even work there…the guy that invited her does.

Also…my boyfriend only knew her…no1 else.

 

In the pics they were standing by each other pretty much the whole night…in some they appeared in the background.

 

Anyway. I want to confront him….only because the more I think about it, the more suspicious I become….only because….why, of all friends she invites him? To me it looked like a date because they were the only 2…why not invite a group of friends? Why 1 on 1?

 

Looking at the photos just reminded me of when we first started dating….shy and reserved…standing next to each other…small talk...and finally dancing the last 5 mins b4 the party ends.

 

Idk how I should bring this up? I don’t want to seem like I am jealous…short leashing…or that I don’t trust him :(

Edited by SinglePeaInThePoD
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So it happened a few months ago? Why is your friend forwarding it to you now? When you say your bf of almost a year, do you mean like 11 months or like 8? And when you say a few months ago, where was your relationship at then?

I agree it is kind of weird - but how good of friends is he with her? And you did say that we was open with you about it. He probably wouldn't have been if something fishy was going on

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