suzie sweet Posted October 1, 2010 Posted October 1, 2010 broke up 3 wks ago, wedding booked for next year, no other person involved we just had a fight and split, im hurting badly, but cant understand he told me tonight that he still loves me but not the way he did whilst we were together a different kinda love a carin love always be there for me and still wants to be friends, I cant tho im so angry and hes confused me, how can someone that loved u so much even paid for the wedding dress switch off so soon,? He even said tonight he couldnt wait to be married we just wernt ment to be together and he wants me to be happy.
ShannonMI Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 broke up 3 wks ago, wedding booked for next year, no other person involved we just had a fight and split, im hurting badly, but cant understand he told me tonight that he still loves me but not the way he did whilst we were together a different kinda love a carin love always be there for me and still wants to be friends, I cant tho im so angry and hes confused me, how can someone that loved u so much even paid for the wedding dress switch off so soon,? He even said tonight he couldnt wait to be married we just wernt ment to be together and he wants me to be happy. I'm so sorry this happened to you! This is awful because you were completely blindsided and you had a wedding planned. I can totally understand this. I was with my ex for 8 years and he dumped me for another girl at the end of May. I was totally blindsided and had no idea it was coming. He told me that there wasn't another girl in the picture, but I eventually found out that there was and he's dating her now. He gave me some lame excuses as to why we weren't right for each other, but in reality it was another girl. I was shocked to say the least. I'm not saying this is the case with your ex, but it may be. Another possibility is that he may have just checked out of the relationship awhile ago, but gave no indication of it. He finally grew a pair and told you because the wedding was just around the corner. I know that hurts to hear and I'm sorry. I guess just be thankful you didn't actually go through with the wedding. I know that's the last thing you want to hear, but imagine if you had? This is a terrible situation and I truly feel for you. Keep posting. We are all here for you.
Billie The Puppet Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 3 months ago we were discussing engagement, (I wanted to she seemed like she wanted to but she imitated the talk, ring shopping) 2 months ago she suddenly needed to be single. No Other person was involved but we had a fight too. I haven't been in contact with her for a whole month now. It's not cold feet from what I can understand I think that last fight burnt out the candles. We had wedding plans too and she even talked with her family about it and then I am dropped just like that.
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