RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted October 1, 2010 Posted October 1, 2010 (edited) Hi everyone! I'm Franklin! I never had a kiss, girlfriend, and date in my life. I want to turn things around. I'm looking for a relationship, not a one night stand. People on the forum has given me advice many months ago. I simply stopped posting in the topic because of flaming. Anyways people tell me that I have a good personality. I'm funny and outgoing. I'm mostly into football, basketball, Brett Favre, shopping, and a little bit into video games. Before early this wear I wore a lot of sports apparel, but I changed my style. People including women have complimented me on my clothes. I also brought new better fitting glasses last December(I can't wear contacts). I've been trying to grow a beard for a while, but my sideburns are not growing down my face. What I think hurts me the most with women is the fact I have deformed ears. They are noticeable. People lie that they are not noticeable. How much are my ears turning off women? Here are my most recent pictures this year. http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=mms_picture3.jpg http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=mms_picture11.jpg http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=62823_553709804588_63702487_31972560_5163961_n.jpg http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=60181_553709729738_63702487_31972555_7035280_n.jpg http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=26319_1373996716444_1427601383_1033072_7748003_n.jpg http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=26319_1373996556440_1427601383_1033068_5931617_n.jpg http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=26319_1373996596441_1427601383_1033069_1881272_n.jpg http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=19864_1320474178414_1427601383_913028_3379254_n.jpg What do I need to do to become attractive to women? I'm open to most suggestions. What types of women like to date men like myself in terms of looks and personality? Edited October 1, 2010 by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN
Mad Max Posted October 1, 2010 Posted October 1, 2010 Ah Mr. Franklin. I recall seeing your posts on a few other message boards. Advice remains the same. Ears aren't the problem, maintain confidence and you'll be ok. As for the flaming, I'm sure others have seen your posts on other forums.
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 (edited) Ah Mr. Franklin. I recall seeing your posts on a few other message boards. Advice remains the same. Ears aren't the problem, maintain confidence and you'll be ok. As for the flaming, I'm sure others have seen your posts on other forums. Hey Mad Max! It seems I find you everywhere! Having confidence is good, but I need more than that because women still express no interest in me. I have to make changes to make things better. I see girls walking on campus drooling and checking out my friends everyday. I display the same confidence as they do with bad results. Edited October 2, 2010 by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN
Cracker Jack Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Not a woman, but your eyes are fine, dude. When's the last time you tried to talk to a woman, Franklin?
TaurusTerp Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t230385/ All your questions are already answered in the same goddamn thread you made 3 months ago.
Cracker Jack Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Oh, and I meant "ears", not eyes. Couldn't edit my post. Sorry.
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 Not a woman, but your eyes are fine, dude. When's the last time you tried to talk to a woman, Franklin? Oh, and I meant "ears", not eyes. Couldn't edit my post. Sorry. I talk to women everyday at school in class taking part in discussion. I'm also a member of two clubs and talk to women in the clubs. Last school year I worked on campus where I met a lot of women because part of my job was to assist students. I'm putting myself out there with no results. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t230385/ All your questions are already answered in the same goddamn thread you made 3 months ago. I took some of the advice and things have not changed. That's why this thread was made.
Cracker Jack Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Well, are you good at gauging their reactions towards you? If so, what sort of feeling do you get from these women as you chat it up with them?
SteveC80 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Ah Mr. Franklin. I recall seeing your posts on a few other message boards. Advice remains the same. Ears aren't the problem, maintain confidence and you'll be ok. As for the flaming, I'm sure others have seen your posts on other forums. The hillarious just have "confidence" and women will be magically attracted to you advice
Mad Max Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 The hillarious just have "confidence" and women will be magically attracted to you advice Tell me Steve, what would you suggest?
SteveC80 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Tell me Steve, what would you suggest? I wouldnt feed him fluff id tell him looks are important in the dating world to get your foot in the door and judging by his pics hes not good looking Id suggest to start out hitting on homely women
Mad Max Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I wouldnt feed him fluff id tell him looks are important in the dating world to get your foot in the door and judging by his pics hes not good looking Id suggest to start out hitting on homely women Looks do matter. No one said they didn't. But, most people are average looking. Most people don't look like Abercrombie and Fitch models. What one person finds repulsing, another finds beautiful.
SteveC80 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 What one person finds repulsing, another finds beautiful. Stop it theres people who are just unattratcive to the opposite sex bottom line lets not live in fantasy land I told my unattractive friend along time ago listen women are just as shallow as Men you may never find a women but you have to be happy to be on your own if thats is what ends up happening He was wondering why women werent attracted to him when all he got was advice that as long as your a good person and confident youll find a women but women werent physically into him and he was puzzled that the advice he got all his life wasnt working When i gave him tough love he began to udnerstand the mating game and realized even if he cant be apart of it hes happy in his own skin
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 I wouldnt feed him fluff id tell him looks are important in the dating world to get your foot in the door and judging by his pics hes not good looking Id suggest to start out hitting on homely women Other then my ears(I already know) what else is wrong with my looks?
Mad Max Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Stop it theres people who are just unattratcive to the opposite sex bottom line lets not live in fantasy land Not to every single person, no. I've seen some pretty fugly people in relationships. I told my unattractive friend along time ago listen women are just as shallow as Men you may never find a women but you have to be happy to be on your own if thats is what ends up happening Yes, they are just as shallow. Telling him he may never find a woman will not help. Some friend you are. He was wondering why women werent attracted to him when all he got was advice that as long as your a good person and confident youll find a women but women werent physically into him and he was puzzled that the advice he got all his life wasnt working His looks are the least of his problems. Most people are of average looks. Most get married and have kids. Here in the United States, there's 300 million people. About 150 million are women. Even if you connect with only 2%, that's still 3 million people. You're telling me you can't find 1 out of 3 million? When i gave him tough love he began to udnerstand the mating game and realized even if he cant be apart of it hes happy in his own skin That's not tough love. That's you being a sh*tty friend. His parents made it, they had him. You're just projecting your own insecurities onto your friend. He can do better without a "friend" like you.
SteveC80 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Not to every single person, no. I've seen some pretty fugly people in relationships. Yes, they are just as shallow. Telling him he may never find a woman will not help. Some friend you are. His looks are the least of his problems. Most people are of average looks. Most get married and have kids. Here in the United States, there's 300 million people. About 150 million are women. Even if you connect with only 2%, that's still 3 million people. You're telling me you can't find 1 out of 3 million? That's not tough love. That's you being a sh*tty friend. His parents made it, they had him. You're just projecting your own insecurities onto your friend. He can do better without a "friend" like you. Yeah im such a bad friend that he later thanked me and said i saved his life He was depressed on the verge of suciide because his lack of sucess with women and constant wonderment why he did what people said and he still had no luck I taught him that if women arent inot him life is still worht living instead of givign him a few meaningless cliches like the ones you and others have typed here I gave him the truth not bs sugarcoating that i thought hed rather hear
chelle21689 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Not gonna lie, the ears do stick out but guess what? Will Smith has big ears that stick out and he's attractive because of his personality, how he carries himself, and he has a pretty nice face lol.
Mad Max Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Yeah im such a bad friend that he later thanked me and said i saved his life He was depressed on the verge of suciide because his lack of sucess with women and constant wonderment why he did what people said and he still had no luck I taught him that if women arent inot him life is still worht living instead of givign him a few meaningless cliches like the ones you and others have typed here I gave him the truth not bs sugarcoating that i thought hed rather hear Telling your friend he may never find a woman is not being a good friend. Sounds like he's emotionally damaged. Looks matter. That part is true. Telling your friend he may never find a woman is being a sh*tty friend. Even if my friend was butt ugly, I would never tell him that. There's someone for everyone. Some may have to work a bit harder, but there's billions of people on this planet. Give me a break.
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 Yeah im such a bad friend that he later thanked me and said i saved his life He was depressed on the verge of suciide because his lack of sucess with women and constant wonderment why he did what people said and he still had no luck I taught him that if women arent inot him life is still worht living instead of givign him a few meaningless cliches like the ones you and others have typed here I gave him the truth not bs sugarcoating that i thought hed rather hear If your friend was suicidal then he would have killed himself with your advice. Your story sounds shady.
SteveC80 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Telling your friend he may never find a woman is not being a good friend. Sounds like he's emotionally damaged. Looks matter. That part is true. Telling your friend he may never find a woman is being a sh*tty friend. Even if my friend was butt ugly, I would never tell him that. There's someone for everyone. Some may have to work a bit harder, but there's billions of people on this planet. Give me a break. I didnt tell him he never would i said if that happesn to unfortunately be the case then you still have to be happy with yourself and not rely on women being attracted to you to be what defines you is all i said
Mad Max Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I didnt tell him he never would i said if that happesn to unfortunately be the case then you still have to be happy with yourself and not rely on women being attracted to you to be what defines you is all i said This is what I said: Telling him he may never find a woman will not help This is what you said: you may never find a women but you have to be happy to be on your own if thats is what ends up happening Yes, you did tell him he may never find a woman. Franklin is right. Your story is shady.
PJKino Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I dont mind Steves advice in my experience i can relate allot more to what hes saying then the cliches.. Im 30 and never been in a relationship and dont ever expect to..I realize most women arent attracted to me and dont feel like going through hundreds of more rejections.. I also refuse to try to get someobdy i have zero physical attraction to but only go with her becasue i feel like its all i can get.. Id rather be alone
Mad Max Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I dont mind Steves advice in my experience i can relate allot more to what hes saying then the cliches.. Im 30 and never been in a relationship and dont ever expect to..I realize most women arent attracted to me and dont feel like going through hundreds of more rejections.. I also refuse to try to get someobdy i have zero physical attraction to but only go with her becasue i feel like its all i can get.. Id rather be alone You do realize that people in your situation are an extremely minority? I'm not trying to put you down, just saying that most people(even if below average in looks) can find a partner at some point. Some people get rejected more than others. At some point, someone is going to say yes. Have you tried going for average looking girls? Overweight girls?
PJKino Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 You do realize that people in your situation are an extremely minority? I'm not trying to put you down, just saying that most people(even if below average in looks) can find a partner at some point. Some people get rejected more than others. At some point, someone is going to say yes. Have you tried going for average looking girls? Overweight girls? I dont find overweight women attratcive..I dont mind a little extra weight in the right places but fat is not for me.. I dont try for models by any stretch or just really hot girls but the girl has to be somehwat attractive to me.. No amount of personality can make up for zero physical attraction for me As i said id rather be alone then be with soembody im not really into but its all i think i can get..
Mad Max Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I dont find overweight women attratcive..I dont mind a little extra weight in the right places but fat is not for me.. I dont try for models by any stretch or just really hot girls but the girl has to be somehwat attractive to me.. No amount of personality can make up for zero physical attraction for me As i said id rather be alone then be with soembody im not really into but its all i think i can get.. I've been attracted to overweight girls before and I'm far from being overweight. I still think your standards are way too high.
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