lsb Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 He is still contacting me even after a year and of him dating two other women. And it always throws me through a loop. I end up missing him and want to write to him. Should I write to him? Just email and say how are you? He wrote to me saying it would be nice to hear from me...
paleblue Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 Why bother? Unless you plan on getting back together? And I would seriously re-consider if you are thinking about it since he has already left to be with at least two others. The same thing is just going to happen to you again . Sorry if this sounds blunt. But it sounds like you need to just move on with your life and find someone worthy of your time and affection. Why waste your time on someone who is never going to make you happy? That's my two cents.
Don Ho Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 I assume he dumped you. He's been with two other women. I hope you're not seriously thinking about taking him back. Why be friends? It doesn't sound like you're over him. Don't respond.
Author lsb Posted September 30, 2010 Author Posted September 30, 2010 I don't think I am going to meet anyone else. And if this is so, why would he contact me?
Don Ho Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 You don't think you're going to meet someone else? Not if you're still hanging on to him. Even IF that were true, does that mean you should settle?
paleblue Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 He contacts you because he views you as a back up plan in case one of his other relationships falls thru. He is just making sure he can come back just in case. If he really wanted to be with you he would be. If he really wanted to be with you he would not be making love to another woman. If you dont mind him using you only when its good for him, sure, go for it.
Don Ho Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 "Making love to another woman". WTF? He is BANGING another woman and wants you to sit on the backburner and wait. Sista, what the hell are you thinking?
carhill Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 How many times have you had sex with him since you broke up? I ask because the force is strong with you and it usually doesn't remain that strong unless reinforced with some oxytocin. Either that or he's a charmer without compare. My advice is to stop f*cking him, if you have been, and stop reading/listening/responding to his contacts. Change your phone number and e-mail. Heal. Good luck
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