rosegarden Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 How many of you have broken up with your girlfriend and then she went to panic mode and started calling , texting, stalking...? What did you feel and would you be willing to take her back after NC and seen she's really been taking care of herself.
TaraMaiden Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 rosegarden... have you been doing this......?
Author rosegarden Posted September 29, 2010 Author Posted September 29, 2010 rosegarden... have you been doing this......? Sadly yes, my story is here... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t247479/
Leandro Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Just leave him alone Rosegarden. Move on and focus on yourself. If he comes back than great. If he doesn't than oh well. It's life.
Ajax Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I've never taken anyone back who I've initiated the breakup with. More girls have dumped me than have been dumped by me, but with those that have I was sure that the relationship wasn't going anywhere. Now as for my current ex who dumped me, I hope she doesn't feel that way
durkadurka Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I've never taken anyone back who I've initiated the breakup with. More girls have dumped me than have been dumped by me, but with those that have I was sure that the relationship wasn't going anywhere. Now as for my current ex who dumped me, I hope she doesn't feel that way If I've dumped someone, and I haven't dumped many, it's because I feel really strongly about the fact that there is something wrong and in the long run it's not going to work. My ex and I didn't really break up, we just said this isn't working for either of us right now. In a way that's bad because we've both moved onto other things, for me school and moving to a new apartment, for her she's seeing a new guy. It leaves a feeling of things being incomplete. If a girl was stalking me I'd say one word 'Psycho' then I'd be happy with the fact I broke up with her.
Feelin Frisky Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 How many of you have broken up with your girlfriend and then she went to panic mode and started calling , texting, stalking...? What did you feel and would you be willing to take her back after NC and seen she's really been taking care of herself. Me. I'm human and have needs and gave in a few times. But it always went to hell. I eventually went so far as to move and have no phone number change message. The ecstacy was not worth the agony. We didn't text or email so that wasn't an issue.
Trovador Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 One of the major loves of my life did that after I broke up with her... it was kind of sad, actually, because I felt I wasn't that great to deserve that lot of attention and pleading (in fact I dumped her because I never felt appreciated by her)... I guess she realized that this time it was for real (it was) and entered panic mode... I never answered back her calls or mails... After a year and some months, she found a job in the same street I work... I've seen her a few times, she has a new car, she looks fine, she keeps her beauty... We interchanged some emails but nothing came out of that... It seems she wanted more effort from me (remember I was the dumper) and frankly, I am not that interested... Aren't dumpees (how I hate these words!) the ones to put more effort into an eventual comeback? Honestly, I expected she would do most of the work but I guess she played hard to get (something she has always done, when we met, after a fight, etc.)... bah!
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