breadnbutter Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 It is not a new thing that has happened in the world. Yet, it is a great feeling to be in love and I am enjoying it. I don’t know if its love or just admiration and the wanting to get to know him. I don’t know. I am in my twenties and am in a good relationship already. I love my partner. He is a beautiful person. Yet, its a strange feelin that’s sweet, crazy yet bitter as it can never materialize. I like a signle man who doesn’t have any clue that I like him. I don’t dream sleeping with him or getting married to him. I don’t make excuses to meet him. Neither do I lie to my partner. But I am in touch with him for reasons unavoidable at the moment through phone which my partner is also aware of. I don’t even expect him to reciprocate my love. But I want to keep loving him irrespective of his marital status, keep knowing about how he leads his life even from a far off distance and never break off the contact with him. That’s all I ask for, unconditional! I don’t know much about his personal self than the usual hellos and byes thrown at each other. But I admire his dedication to his work, his helpful nature, his seriousness towards his profession and just him. I have no intention of telling him this either. He knows I am in a relationship and he would hate me for what I am. It will ruin many lives. But, why does my mind say that he likes me and is just hiding? I could well be imagining it, though. And there ARE reasons why I would imagine this. Am I in love? Is it just a crush?
Confused4Now Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 It is not a new thing that has happened in the world. Yet, it is a great feeling to be in love and I am enjoying it. I don’t know if its love or just admiration and the wanting to get to know him. I don’t know. I am in my twenties and am in a good relationship already. I love my partner. He is a beautiful person. Yet, its a strange feelin that’s sweet, crazy yet bitter as it can never materialize. I like a signle man who doesn’t have any clue that I like him. I don’t dream sleeping with him or getting married to him. I don’t make excuses to meet him. Neither do I lie to my partner. But I am in touch with him for reasons unavoidable at the moment through phone which my partner is also aware of. I don’t even expect him to reciprocate my love. But I want to keep loving him irrespective of his marital status, keep knowing about how he leads his life even from a far off distance and never break off the contact with him. That’s all I ask for, unconditional! I don’t know much about his personal self than the usual hellos and byes thrown at each other. But I admire his dedication to his work, his helpful nature, his seriousness towards his profession and just him. I have no intention of telling him this either. He knows I am in a relationship and he would hate me for what I am. It will ruin many lives. But, why does my mind say that he likes me and is just hiding? I could well be imagining it, though. And there ARE reasons why I would imagine this. Am I in love? Is it just a crush?Sounds like infatuation to me....
Author breadnbutter Posted September 30, 2010 Author Posted September 30, 2010 Sounds like infatuation to me.... May be. I don't know. I love the feeling but I wantt o get over it all the same. What do I do?
Dasha Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 You might want to read through all the threads on this forum for The Other Man/Other Woman and find out the reality of getting involved with a married man. Learn from the experiences of those who went before you through the same feelings you are having now. It will give you some perspective on whether you want to act on your feelings or try to turn your attention to someone available. The value of this forum is that people are willing to share the good and the bad and it might save you some pain or at least help you know what to expect.
Author breadnbutter Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 You might want to read through all the threads on this forum for The Other Man/Other Woman and find out the reality of getting involved with a married man. Learn from the experiences of those who went before you through the same feelings you are having now. It will give you some perspective on whether you want to act on your feelings or try to turn your attention to someone available. The value of this forum is that people are willing to share the good and the bad and it might save you some pain or at least help you know what to expect. He is not married!
newlife2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 He is not married! Maybe HE isn't, but you are in a committed relationship, by your own admission. You aren't in love with someone you barely know. You are infatuated by him, and you need to figure out why you would be having these feelings about someone while in a supposedly good relationship with another man.
wheelwright Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 It is not a new thing that has happened in the world. Yet, it is a great feeling to be in love and I am enjoying it. I don’t know if its love or just admiration and the wanting to get to know him. I don’t know. I am in my twenties and am in a good relationship already. I love my partner. He is a beautiful person. Yet, its a strange feelin that’s sweet, crazy yet bitter as it can never materialize. I like a signle man who doesn’t have any clue that I like him. I don’t dream sleeping with him or getting married to him. I don’t make excuses to meet him. Neither do I lie to my partner. But I am in touch with him for reasons unavoidable at the moment through phone which my partner is also aware of. I don’t even expect him to reciprocate my love. But I want to keep loving him irrespective of his marital status, keep knowing about how he leads his life even from a far off distance and never break off the contact with him. That’s all I ask for, unconditional! I don’t know much about his personal self than the usual hellos and byes thrown at each other. But I admire his dedication to his work, his helpful nature, his seriousness towards his profession and just him. I have no intention of telling him this either. He knows I am in a relationship and he would hate me for what I am. It will ruin many lives. But, why does my mind say that he likes me and is just hiding? I could well be imagining it, though. And there ARE reasons why I would imagine this. Am I in love? Is it just a crush? There's a lovely British film called 'French Film'. Watch it and post what you think. How does the coffee taste? Or is love worth anything? Those are the questions to answer after the film.
Author breadnbutter Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 Maybe HE isn't, but you are in a committed relationship, by your own admission. You aren't in love with someone you barely know. You are infatuated by him, and you need to figure out why you would be having these feelings about someone while in a supposedly good relationship with another man. I may be able to give you a dozen or more reasons why this is happening to me. But those are not an excuse why I feel so in my mid twenties. But he simply has blown me over. And it sucks.
Author breadnbutter Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 There's a lovely British film called 'French Film'. Watch it and post what you think. How does the coffee taste? Or is love worth anything? Those are the questions to answer after the film. Will do it
MorningCoffee Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 There's a lovely British film called 'French Film'. Watch it and post what you think. How does the coffee taste? Or is love worth anything? Those are the questions to answer after the film. Thank you -- LOVED the film.
fooled once Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 It is not a new thing that has happened in the world. Yet, it is a great feeling to be in love and I am enjoying it. I don’t know if its love or just admiration and the wanting to get to know him. I don’t know. I am in my twenties and am in a good relationship already. I love my partner. He is a beautiful person. Yet, its a strange feelin that’s sweet, crazy yet bitter as it can never materialize. I like a signle man who doesn’t have any clue that I like him. I don’t dream sleeping with him or getting married to him. I don’t make excuses to meet him. Neither do I lie to my partner. But I am in touch with him for reasons unavoidable at the moment through phone which my partner is also aware of. I don’t even expect him to reciprocate my love. But I want to keep loving him irrespective of his marital status, keep knowing about how he leads his life even from a far off distance and never break off the contact with him. That’s all I ask for, unconditional! I don’t know much about his personal self than the usual hellos and byes thrown at each other. But I admire his dedication to his work, his helpful nature, his seriousness towards his profession and just him. I have no intention of telling him this either. He knows I am in a relationship and he would hate me for what I am. It will ruin many lives. But, why does my mind say that he likes me and is just hiding? I could well be imagining it, though. And there ARE reasons why I would imagine this. Am I in love? Is it just a crush? This sounds like infatuation. I agree, how do you "love" someone you don't know? He could be an abusive drunk outside of work. He could harbor weird fetishes and all kinds of things. I don't see love here at all.
Author breadnbutter Posted October 9, 2010 Author Posted October 9, 2010 This sounds like infatuation. I agree, how do you "love" someone you don't know? He could be an abusive drunk outside of work. He could harbor weird fetishes and all kinds of things. I don't see love here at all. No, he is not adrunk. I know that. But I can't know if he would have weird fetishes. I wouldn't know that of my brother or even bf, would I? About knowing him, I don;t know his personal stuff but I have been meeting him for more than ayear now and I know his likes dislikes mannerisms and what he is outside and for people outside. Would than count in to love still?
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