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tincanman99 Established Member

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I am just curious. I am always open to tips and input in general as its good to learn. So what makes a guy good in bed?

 

Attentiveness? Focus? Aggression? Leading? Patience?

 

Hit me ladies, expand my mind ;) .

Allisha Established Member

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I could literally be here all day.

 

Just a few. I'll try to avoid the standard, "a really big ...."

 

- G-spot/clit manipulation. Just knows what he's doing in other words.

- Open to trying new things.

- Eye contact.

- Determined to pleasure me. Like it's his sole purpose for breathing.

- Aggressive/rough (sometimes :cool:), but gentle at the same time. Don't know if that makes sense. But I think if a guy loves you and respects you, no matter how aggressive he acts, I think his feelings will always shine through in how he is with you? It's real cute.

- Focused.

- Kissing.

- Confidence.

- Flexibility.

- Stamina.

- Passion.

 

 

 

Six pack. :o

alexlakeman Established Member

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I could literally be here all day.

 

Just a few. I'll try to avoid the standard, "a really big ...."

 

- G-spot/clit manipulation. Just knows what he's doing in other words.

- Open to trying new things.

- Eye contact.

- Determined to pleasure me. Like it's his sole purpose for breathing.

- Aggressive/rough (sometimes :cool:), but gentle at the same time. Don't know if that makes sense. But I think if a guy loves you and respects you, no matter how aggressive he acts, I think his feelings will always shine through in how he is with you? It's real cute.

- Focused.

- Kissing.

- Confidence.

- Flexibility.

- Stamina.

- Passion.

 

 

 

Six pack. :o

 

 

I pass all that.. except the six pack :( .. so hard, lol...

gypsy_nicky Established Member

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physically attractive.....................minimum...7'...x...4.5'

Allisha Established Member

Allisha

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I pass all that.. except the six pack :( .. so hard, lol...

 

You don't like it hard?! :eek:

coloredinks Established Member

coloredinks

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penis size and shape

 

enthusiasm and passion

 

taking charge rather than passively lying there, but without being obnoxiously aggressive or foul

 

giving compliments

 

good mixture of soft affection and rough affection

GooseChaser Established Member

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- Energy and endurance

- Passion

- Attentiveness

- Interest

- Creative

- Eye contact and kissing is good, yes. It feels more personal and intimate that way. :)

- Foreplay so both people get turned on and are ready to go =]

CLC2008 Established Member

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I am just curious. I am always open to tips and input in general as its good to learn. So what makes a guy good in bed?

 

Attentiveness? Focus? Aggression? Leading? Patience?

 

Hit me ladies, expand my mind ;) .

 

I'd say out of the four things you listed, attentiveness and patience would be my preference.

 

Anything else would be between him and I to know. :p

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For me it takes physical attraction, emotional connectedness, open mindedness, and the ability to learn and grow.

coloredinks Established Member

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For me it takes physical attraction, emotional connectedness, open mindedness, and the ability to learn and grow.

 

I agree! :)

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Confident. Emotionally involved. Attentive and responsive. Relaxed pacing that fits my natural pacing without either of us feeling forced to speed up or slow down. Bigger, broader, outweighs me. Body hair is nice. Smells good to me. Uses his body to express feelings, not just to get off, get me off.

 

Also, I like to feel that his choice to be there is because of who I am as a person and that he wouldn't be doing this with just anyone.

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Ruby Slippers Established Member

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Strong, lusty, and take charge.

 

Freely gives and receives pleasure.

 

Makes me come as many times as I want. Since I come easily and often, if a guy stops after I come once, unless it's like the O of the century, I am disappointed.

 

Free of shame and judgment about sex and our bodies.

 

Passionate, makes love to me full body, with lots of touching, grabbing, kissing, sucking, and unbridled exploration.

 

Never complains about the need to wear condoms.

 

Varies the thrusting action, incorporating grinding rotations, shallow thrusting, different angles.

 

Admires and touches my body freely when I ride him.

 

Is verbal, makes affirming, fun, and dirty comments.

 

Enjoys having sex with me all over the house (and city), and makes adventurous sex happen. Think moonlit beach with a blanket and red wine.

 

Flirts with me and makes suggestive comments during non-sexual activities, to get my imagination churning and prime me for later. :love:

 

I could go on and on. (And so could he. :D)

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tincanman99 Established Member

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Very enlightening :) . So a lot of this is in the mind even before getting to bed.

TaraMaiden Established Member

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Any guy who can last more than one minute has it in the bag!!

Philetus Established Member

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Any guy who can last more than one minute has it in the bag!!

 

Wow! You set the bar high! :)

Philetus Established Member

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Ladies, since you're all being so forthcoming (pun intended), how are you on the subject of sex in the morning?

 

Do you, or would you, occasionally like to be woken up with your guy doing some gentle initiating?

TaraMaiden Established Member

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Any guy who can last more than one minute has it in the bag!!

 

Wow! You set the bar high! :)

 

Yah.... I got principles, ya kno....? *smak-chews gum*....:D

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Ladies, since you're all being so forthcoming (pun intended), how are you on the subject of sex in the morning?

 

Do you, or would you, occasionally like to be woken up with your guy doing some gentle initiating?

I'm sure she wouldn't mind kissing to wake her up, but when she's sleeping you should take it very slow and not do anything extreme, because she will be surprised when you wake up. You should also be ready to back off if she isn't in the mood and save it for later.

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Strong, lusty, and take charge.

 

Freely gives and receives pleasure.

 

Makes me come as many times as I want. Since I come easily and often, if a guy stops after I come once, unless it's like the O of the century, I am disappointed.

 

Free of shame and judgment about sex and our bodies.

 

Passionate, makes love to me full body, with lots of touching, grabbing, kissing, sucking, and unbridled exploration.

 

Never complains about the need to wear condoms.

 

Varies the thrusting action, incorporating grinding rotations, shallow thrusting, different angles.

 

Admires and touches my body freely when I ride him.

 

Is verbal, makes affirming, fun, and dirty comments.

 

Enjoys having sex with me all over the house (and city), and makes adventurous sex happen. Think moonlit beach with a blanket and red wine.

 

Flirts with me and makes suggestive comments during non-sexual activities, to get my imagination churning and prime me for later. :love:

 

I could go on and on. (And so could he. :D)

 

Quoted for future reference :). Well said.

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Ladies, since you're all being so forthcoming (pun intended), how are you on the subject of sex in the morning?

 

Do you, or would you, occasionally like to be woken up with your guy doing some gentle initiating?

 

Oh most definitely. I love that [unless I've had less than six hours of sleep, then I get horribly grumpy].

Eeyore79 Established Member

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I would say "rough", but that's not quite the right word... what I mean is, he has to express desire and sort of grab me and ravish me... maybe "dominant" is a better word!

 

He also has to be really enthusiastic, enjoy what he does to me as well as what I do to him, and not be completely silent.

 

I also need an emotional connection... he needs to really care about me outside of the bedroom for me to enjoy being with him in the bedroom.

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  • Tactile nature.
  • Desire and passion.
  • A short refractory period with a very high drive.
  • Sometimes aggressive and animalistic, other times, wooing and teasing, etc.

Ruby Slippers Established Member

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Ladies, since you're all being so forthcoming (pun intended), how are you on the subject of sex in the morning?

 

Do you, or would you, occasionally like to be woken up with your guy doing some gentle initiating?

Oh, yeah. I wrote about that here.

Philetus Established Member

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Oh, yeah. I wrote about that here.

 

Thanks! That was a nice story. I'm hatching a plan for Sunday morning.... :)

 

We also did the tennis thing, too. My gf and I are both gym rats. We played tennis (she's good and kicked my ass). Went back to her place to clean up, hopped in the shower, and then to quote her (she's a fan of Jersey Shore, so it's really quoting Snooki) 'it's on like Donkey Kong'.

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I would like to thank all the ladies for "opening up". Nyuck, nyuck.

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