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Intimacy frustration now that ex is gone!


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It's been 2 months since breakup. I am so sexually frustrated, haven't gone on any dates (don't know where to start), I mean I was in a 5 year relationship and now that I am single I am just lost in a cloud.

 

Trying to get on with my life, but I am so sexually frustrated it is not even funny. I am just so upset, I am mad he hurt me, I still cry for him, I am sad that I am alone, and now I am wanting sex. This is just a night mare for me. I hate that it got to the point that I now physically miss the kissing, the sex just want it everyday, and I cry b/c I have nothing! The thought of sleeping with someone else after a break up just scares me. I feel like I would have guilt that's why I haven't gotten involved like that, plus I am not that kind of girl to have random hookups anyways.

 

Just so frustrated, it's like would I ever feel like I WON'T feel guilty if I am with another partner having sex??? Just the thought makes me want to throw up :( ughh the thought of him doing it with someone else is killing me

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I feel that way too.

 

My ex and I were each others first. We did everything but sex (we're young) and now that it's over, I miss it so much. I still find her very very attractive. But I'm not the guy that just hooks up with random girls, for I believe using others as sexual objects is wrong.

 

I think about that stuff too. Thinking of her doing that stuff with another guy. What we have to do is get our minds somewhere else. We gotta focus on ourselves and we gotta be strong because we're money. We just don't realize it ya know?

 

Good luck to you :)

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