naya1 Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 Well i ..was.. i didnt expect it. just a week ago he said he was in love with me ..and now.. what? i dont know what to do and i certainly did not expect it. so for all those people who didnt like me or the advices i gave here cheers. but all i can say even the ones u trust can just dump u unexpectedly. the backstory hes friends w/ a guy i used to date, and a guy who still wants to marry me. we didnt let the universe know of this..we were a secret because we didnt want people to go crazy about it. he mustve realized he didnt want to lose all of his friends for me. he used to say he didnt care about what his friends think..cause they wont be there to take care of him..and they wont be there to give him babies. turns out i guess-- maybe they will? well after 2 bottles of vodka and marlboros..im still here..in a state of shock.. why? i didnt do anything. what to do now where to go from here.
bboy Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 1. Go sober 2. Allow yourself to be sorry 3. Log in here again, there is much guidance here to recieve to navigate your way into a new future.
Don Ho Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 I don't think anyone here would wish anguish on you regardless of your personality or opinions (not that I remember). We can all disagree, but I think we're all here to support each other no matter what's transpired. You do need to stop the drinking; it's a depressant and will not help you at all. I know, I tried to drown my misery in the past with alcohol! Obviously you're in shock over what happened and you're grappling with the situation; which is normal. I'm not sure what happened in your relationship, but in some ways understanding doesn't necessarily make you feel any better. Try to get very busy, see your friends, go buy some new clothes, volunteer, improve yourself, spend time with family and so on. It will get easier as time goes on.
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