Overprotective1992 Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 my friend who is a woman and is also one of my best friends let's call her Kate decided to give her ex boyfriend Connor a second chance even though he cheated on her and broke her heart 3 years prior. when Kate texted me out of the blue telling me they were back together i instantly told her i was dead against it and that he would only do it again, to which she responded by giving me the cold shoulder until i was open to giving Connor a second chance as well. As the weeks rolled on Connor and I became close friends as well, but i still consider myself closer to Kate who confided in me recently that Connor confessed to making out with one of his ex girlfriends, she told me that she would be giving him ANOTHER chance and if it happened again it was over. So rather than telling her to dump him like i so wanted, i decided to keep my resentment hidden for the time being and am now trying to find a way to get her to leave Connor before they get too serious (Kate has voiced wanting to marry Connor) Any ways anyone can think of to go about this? i don't want to mess anything up and one wrong move it'll all happen, she'll close up and shut me out leaving Connor to do as he pleases with whomever he pleases.
bboy Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 If you get involved in someone elses relationship, it should be to support them when they are in it or when they are out of it. The transition between is really none of your business. If this guy is no good for her, then she has to come to this conclussion herself. Not with someone else pushing her there. If you decide to get yourself involved, be prepared that you don't really know a fraction of what really goes on between them and the probability of just messing things up i very likely.
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