Becky0789 Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 Me and my ex where together for a year.. Very close, in love, crazy about each other. Im 19 and hes 20. We had a very rough time over the past couple of months after loosing a baby and it affected him VERY badly, he was more excitied about the baby than i was,and split about 5 weeks a go. After he split up with me i constantly text him and nothing , so i decided just to move on and leave him to it. 3 weeks after i stopped contacting him he randomly text me, he put 'where u serious about wanting to be with me and to have a family? "/', and we got talking for days, he told me that he still loves me and thinks about me everyday and us having a family and said he does actually really miss me and said that his head was just a bit messed up and when i asked him if he loved his new girlfriend he said.. ' how can i if a part of me still belongs with you'. however he has a new gf :/, he said he was going to tell her, then he went strange, i kept texting him over and over because he just started egnoring me for no really apprent reason.. He said that he didnt mean for this to happen and we will never work.. Im heartbroken, now hes just playing happy with his gf, i no full well he wouldnt of just said all that to me for the sake of it otherwise he wouldnt of even be bothered, and certainly woulndt of bothered contacting me after 4 weeks.. I really miss him.. I cant believe he would do this again "/. I got really annoyed that he went back to egnoring me so i said things maybe i shouldnt of :/. Earlier i sent him a message on a social networking website that allows you to view who views your profile.. and he read the email looked at my profile page and didnt answer me... Does he miss me? i dont understand ... What should i do? I no deep down he cares.. i hate it, i love him so much
a_woman Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 I think he loves you and misses you but by the sound of it you both had a lot to deal with. The fact that he goes quiet rather than talk to you is a bad sign. He can't really communicate, that would make it really hard if not impossible to work this out.
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