kevin32 Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 Me and a MW have been seeing each other every other night for sex (her husband usually takes long business trips). This lasted only a few weeks until a relative of hers invited herself over to stay and watch after her. Now we might see each other once a week or so when her relative is away, and she has a child to take care of. So I'm curious, if you're a MW or OM, how often do you see the other for sex?
piscis Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 I am single, my MM also takes long trips, so we staye togehter once a week despite him traveling or not. Of course we have sex in those meetings but we do more than that, I mean we do not just see each other and go to a hotel and then leave. He's marital home is about 3 hours away from our office and my house. So we go out to the movies, the theater, dinner, then we stay togehter.
Confused4Now Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 When my affair started almost 5 years back.....and I will say my A was pretty much emotional...but when the sex finally started it was probably 2 to 3 times a month. Once I left my marriage it really didn't increase much. Even when her husband moved out for 6 months. The best of times I would say maybe once a week, but then again that was better than what my xW gave me. which was once a month.
20Seconds Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 On average one evening a week for 12 months. Would be more if we could, and currently can't see each other at all, and the frustration is difficult to cope with. We met for lunch regularly as well as drinks / dinner out in the evenings, or a meal at my place. We have always had sex on our evening dates, sometimes lunchtimes as well if we had time. My ideal would be to see each other 3-4 nights a week.
lilbunny Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 I suppose after it turned physical we would have sex 2-3 times a week. I am single he is married. We didn't get to spend the night together that often, but we went out for dinner etc and sometimes stayed in hotels rather than my flat. We saw each other almost every day and would at least kiss and hug on those days. That was probably more important to me than the sex.
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